According to him we need to coordinate our outfits. He can never tell when I'm going to dress up nice (GOOD) and asked me if what he had on was ok. I told him next time come with it. He showed me a watch his cousin gave him. Fossil (even that is too rich for my blood right now lol). Wanted to know if I liked it.
We had a talk about my view on black men. I told him I date all men but when I was online few black men of quality would message me. And when I would message them I got no reply. So I can't date who doesn't show interest. He likes his women all natural (no weave, make-up, false eyelashes
) and dark. According to him I'm caramel. I am regular degular brown. Maybe? Hmm. I'm not caramel I know that.
ANYWAY, we got into his lack of messages in between dates. I explained to him that I want to feel wanted by you OUTSIDE of when we're together. That I can't tell if you're still interested or not. "I am interested. And when/if I stop being interested I will tell you." I told him we were long distance we need to talk. He says we're not long distance.
Long distance= little to no in person contact. Lots of messages between contact.
Other relationship=lots of in person contact. Little to no messages between contact. So he assumes because we see each other so much (once every two weeks. BUT it's the holidays. Come January it better get back to how it was in the beginning) we don't need to talk as much. So he talked around it without giving me a straight answer
but at the same time I got his answer.
He's open to love. But he told me to make sure that I'm happy with everything that I'm receiving from him before crossing into that territory. He like me. All of me. And takes me as I am (his words). I told him the personality traits I like about him. There might be some things about him that he will be unchanging about. But couldn't answer what those things are lol (he's either confused or playing games. Maybe both).
We discussed if we were in the infatuation stage or not. I think it's this weird quasi thing. Because we have the physical aspect of it but for me I've noticed flaws for a minute. And I haven't glossed over them. He has some jealousy/mistrust. I told him I had been practicing cowgirl. And he asked "who were you practicing with?" THE LOOK I GAVE HIM. See now here. If I have to deal with your lack of communication between dates you need to deal with your jealousy/mistrust. "Oh I didn't know that you can practice that by yourself."
Sex was great. I was hot as hell afterwards and every time I would escape he would pull me right back. He finally rolled away and apologized for it when we got up. But then said he didn't feel me tossing and turning all night.
So in conclusion. I don't have one. I know what I dealing with now. I guess I'm going to have to see if I can handle it.
They've been divorced for 6 years now but they have a kid. She's a borderline deadbeat mother as it is. They were married for less than a year. I'm under the suspicion that the reason why they divorced is in part due to her heauxdom... but the fact is he still married her. Being with him would make me look bad just by the mere affiliation. I cannot fathom the thought of her as a figment in my life. Eww. I'm soooooo turned off now. #nothanks #yourenotwelcome #neitherisyourkid #honestly #icant
I really like him but nah.
why she look ridiculous?!
but you're better off! He's someone else's problem now.
