Oh and Young Bae is a piece of ****. Never again. Young dudes are wayy too immature. I just wanted to turn him out and get my rocks off. His loss. Jackass....Ok I see you young bae. You better keep up the momentum and step up to the plate.
DANG he fine
Meet a dude over the holidays, but I swear I know him from somewhere. I don't know where, but I know we've held conversation before. He claims he doesn't remember, but I know we've spoken before.
Anyways, he texted me today and right off the back asked for a pic.
So I sent him one of my sports car. Like...why you need a pic of me in your phone ? I just met you, lawd.
We have bits and pieces. We went into that our first date actually. He asked me and the I reciprocated. And I kind of forgot lmao.
I feel like friend-husband should've stayed home with wife 
but I don't. And friend said no no don't do that cuz it's easier to break up if yall not married first. and babe said "True" like he saw the light and understood. Why are men like this? Why can't you just take my word for it? Why do you need to hear it from your friend? But babe redeemed himself cuz he told friend he wants to show him the ring I picked out 
oh, friend said I had a "New York vibe" lmao what? I really missed him. His family was asking about me. My family wasn't asking about him lmaoo. I swear my people really do not care a lick about romantic relationships like at all 
I be hearing how other young adults get asked the 'you seeing anybody?' 'when you getting married/babies?' questions....I swear aint no family member has EVER asked me this no1curr lmao
It was great, as usual! And no, I didn't invite babe to Tday..even though I knew I'd miss him lol. I told him we should be engaged before we do out of state family gatherings 
cuz hotels and stuff. He said this is the first and last time that will happen lol. kbabe. I got multiple surfaces in my house, shoot! babe can be so thoughtful sometimes <3 lol I may give the other one to his mom cuz I'm nice like that.
I need to jump on this scene but I'm not intrigued by the social atmosphere here.
A few other guys I'm taking to as well, not one lives in my state. I meet them through my travels
. This might be kind of fun 
I'm glad you're ok girl! Awwwwww the affection will have you all in your feelings
is this the guy that didn't want kids or marriage?
I am from CT too and was there for T-Day visiting my fam. What part does yours live?
*nods*
What is T day?1 of his friends and his wife were in town for Tday, so we went out to dinner with them. Nice young black couple. Ok, let me clarify. We went out with his friend...friends wife stayed home...well, at her in-laws lol. Friend and wife got into a bit of an argument before we left...and wife decided to stay home lol aww. I felt bad! She just had a baby...and we were talking 1 on 1 for a little bit after we got to the house..and she's been really tired and doesn't really like where they live, and just seemed sad and stressed
So I didn't like that about friend-husband...but other than that he seemed cool. We had fun. We talked about his marriage some and just marriage in general. At some point, we were talking about living together before marriage and I told friend that babe wants to move in yesterday
Speaking of Tday, we didn't spend it together and that made me kinda sad
Me and my mom (dad didn't go this year, lame-o) went up to CT to visit fam and went to NYC to see the Rockettes like we do every year
My tire light was on, so he put air in my tires. At BJ's. He has a membership to BJ's. So we went in there. Oh, that was planned. I wanted to do my grocery shopping there to compare prices. And compare prices I did! Good stuff. I also bought a 3 set of poinsettia's. I'm in the process of decorating my place for Christmas. When I picked up the poinsettia's, babe was like "so you gonna give 1 to your mom and then who else?" whet?! Chile that's a good idea! I wasn't even thinking about giving my poinsettia's to nobody!
I got him hooked on Insecure this weekend lol. ha. got eem.
What is T day?
Girl you got him wrapped around your finger
Do you want those things?
but if you desire a family, that's probably a total deal breaker? Not trying to be an ass, just trying to look out...Quite the opposite actually. Not seeing him for 2 weeks burst the "infatuation bubble." His fault not mine lol. And I'm losing weight, getting my face together, (and smelling myself lol) hence the questioning of if I want him to be my boyfriend.
He's Mr. Right Now lol. I cannot say for sure that I want marriage and kids but I'm 90% sure?Do you want those things?
I mean it's cool if he's Mr Right Now
Well! I thought it was some West Indies holiday so I was eager to learn something new lol.Thanksgiving. you just haaaaaad to make me type that long ass word out
"One of those days"? More like when do I not have those days lolIt's rare this happens to me but I'm having one of those days when men just piss me off and I'm like '*** 'em all. It's not worth it.'
A few other guys I'm taking to as well, not one lives in my state. I meet them through my travels
Yep I'm in Houston, and yes I'd say it's cliquish. After 5/6 months I've been invited to audition for two cliques, but I'm not sure if I want to join. I've also met some great people from one of my travel groups but they are ALWAYS gone. They aren't natives either so most of them are planning out of state moves soon.Are you in Texas? If it's Houston does it seem too "cliquish"?
-I rarely post in here but since I've moved to my new city I've been trying to be more social and the meetups website has been a godsend. I plan to go ice skating with one of my groups (it's filled with black millenials and the men are active!) this weekend. I'm going to wear a cute sparkly sweater.
It is super cliquish.
Nope- from Hartford/New Britain.
Turkey Day~ Thanksgiving
lol I didn't see you used T-Day as well.Thanksgiving. you just haaaaaad to make me type that long ass word out
