TwoSnapsUp
Well-Known Member
I'm not in perfect shape but I was pulling men when I was 60lbs heavier so I don't believe that's it. Unless I looker older now, which is what I find when people who lose a lot of weight.This sounds silly I know but what do you look like? I dont mean post pics but what do you look like when you go out? It seems you are social so I doubt you are going out looking like Plain Patty. I hate that it comes to this but are you in shape? IME I can say that directly affects it which is annoying but I get it.
I'm thinking it's because I am natural now. I never had a problem attracting men with my long relaxed hair, no matter what size I was. With my natural hair, it's much shorter, and I don't look nice with most styles. I'm going to try to wear my hair straight for a while and see what happens.