Thank you!!!
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pray tell...
Im super geeked and really wanna go to both shows, but I dont want to lead him on. What yall think?
So theres this dude that has been trying to holla but im not romantically interested. He has some coins (he gave me and two friends tickets to his box at the Kanye concert) and he has invited me to see Sommore at DC impov on fri and to the verizon center on sat to see Comedy Get Down Tour featuring Eddie Griffin, Mike Epps, Cedric the Entertainer, Charlie Murphy, George Lopez, and D.L. Hughley.
Ok I thought I'd elaborate on this instead of being all cryptic like an instagram inspirational quote .
I've been seeing a guy for close to 4 months. Not exclusively on my part, i think exclusively on his. I'm dating other guys but he's the one I like the most. we date once or twice a week, no more than three times. We get along great, have similar values, similar backgrounds, great chemistry he treats me exactly like i want to be treated and I can see myself really growing to love this guy.
Last night we had the conversation about what this is and where is this going. He tells me he likes me ( i'm like duh of course you do) he wants a relationship but in the past his exes have complained that he doesn't make enough time for them and get frustrated etc. I'm like
what does this have to do with me and you?
He says he doesn't want me to be disappointed. I asked him if he's lowering my expectations before we even begin. He said to a certain degree yes. I told him that its a pity and a shame but this really isn't going to work then and asked him to call me an Uber.
He messaged me today saying he chose his words poorly and he'd like to talk this evening. I don't think he chose his words poorly at all. i think he was being completely open and honest. I'm not mad at him just disappointed at the whole situation.
Trying to Kanye Shrug this one off but its kind of heavy on me.
I wouldn't - but if you do, enjoy yourself.So theres this dude that has been trying to holla but im not romantically interested. He has some coins (he gave me and two friends tickets to his box at the Kanye concert) and he has invited me to see Sommore at DC impov on fri and to the verizon center on sat to see Comedy Get Down Tour featuring Eddie Griffin, Mike Epps, Cedric the Entertainer, Charlie Murphy, George Lopez, and D.L. Hughley.
Thank you. It was a bit of a messy situation. But Hotep peen will have you cooking greens with a sister wife. That is what he wants. He is legit about that life, down to the ISIS tat on his rib cage. With the Maat gods and stuff. I just want the dack, but he was trying to finesse me.
This was something I had to learn myself. Silly me for thinking a married man would honor his wife and wouldn't try to talk to married women.So clearly I need to move "are you married" to #1 on the list of questions to ask men. Silly me assumes men who approach me, flirt, and ask for my number are single....At least he was honest when I questioned why he kept his left hand in his pocket, and then he said "there's nothing wrong with conversation"
I've only been out the game for a couple months and I'm already forgetting the basics. There are some shady dudes out there.
Ok I thought I'd elaborate on this instead of being all cryptic like an instagram inspirational quote .
I've been seeing a guy for close to 4 months. Not exclusively on my part, i think exclusively on his. I'm dating other guys but he's the one I like the most. we date once or twice a week, no more than three times. We get along great, have similar values, similar backgrounds, great chemistry he treats me exactly like i want to be treated and I can see myself really growing to love this guy.
Last night we had the conversation about what this is and where is this going. He tells me he likes me ( i'm like duh of course you do) he wants a relationship but in the past his exes have complained that he doesn't make enough time for them and get frustrated etc. I'm like
what does this have to do with me and you?
He says he doesn't want me to be disappointed. I asked him if he's lowering my expectations before we even begin. He said to a certain degree yes. I told him that its a pity and a shame but this really isn't going to work then and asked him to call me an Uber.
He messaged me today saying he chose his words poorly and he'd like to talk this evening. I don't think he chose his words poorly at all. i think he was being completely open and honest. I'm not mad at him just disappointed at the whole situation.
Trying to Kanye Shrug this one off but its kind of heavy on me.
So clearly I need to move "are you married" to #1 on the list of questions to ask men. Silly me assumes men who approach me, flirt, and ask for my number are single....At least he was honest when I questioned why he kept his left hand in his pocket, and then he said "there's nothing wrong with conversation"
I've only been out the game for a couple months and I'm already forgetting the basics. There are some shady dudes out there.
They're the invisible aligners from smile direct club! I start my second tray tomorrow. This is very interesting lol.
Also, I told yall about their family yearly cruise that his brother was asking him was I going on, 4seconds after we became a couple lmao. Well, it has been brought back up and people are still trying to get me to go. We were talking about it recently. He knows I went on a cruise with my mom in June. So he's asking me questions and telling me things about their cruise, about booking and prices. And I'm acting surprised at what he's saying...cuz I AM surprised. He says "didn't you just go on a cruise?" Like he doesn't understand why I don't know what he's talking about. I say "yea, but I didn't do anything with the booking and I certainly didn't pay for anything" 
He goes "yea, obviously" and I act like I'm a lil insulted lol. He goes "no no! It's fine. I didn't mean anything by that. I know you didn't. It's just how you were raised 
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" lmao. Eye ***, nicca, spells if lmao. I told him I would need my name added to the deed of the house. it's like a personal goal of mine to not require this until/if we get engaged. I don't want to get on his bj's membership, then we break up,then I have to get off! Omg that would crush me! He be buying 50 chicken thighs for $10! I be buying 2 for $10! 
I look in his freezer and the nicca got 50 chickens! like can I have some chickens please?! ****! This is killing me, but im trying to wait lol. I should make my parents get one lmaooo.
So theres this dude that has been trying to holla but im not romantically interested. He has some coins (he gave me and two friends tickets to his box at the Kanye concert) and he has invited me to see Sommore at DC impov on fri and to the verizon center on sat to see Comedy Get Down Tour featuring Eddie Griffin, Mike Epps, Cedric the Entertainer, Charlie Murphy, George Lopez, and D.L. Hughley.
and losers sending random eggplant pics. The single struggle is real.
ovaries.
