*-*Single Ladies Support Thread!!*-*

[SlimPickinz]

I've been doing a lot of dating since I ended my "relationship" in June. I'm only have sex with my ex but I'm about to drop him and focus on my new men.

 

[TayMac]

So I met a guy. We messed around. I already knew I didn't want to have sex with his, but his d**k found it's way out of his pants anyway. I politely declined.

It's interesting. A couple of years ago, I still wouldn't have had sex with him, but I would of felt really bad about it. This time I didn't care. I didn't lead him on, he just wanted to see how far he could get.

This post is really about how I'm pretty sure I want a commitment. Even in the heat of the moment I can't get turned on enough to go all the way with a dude if I'm just not with it.

That made me laugh.

 

[UniquelyDivine]

So I have a date today, he's a cutie pie but very very boring over text so I've kept that mode of communication to a minimum, we'll see if he livens up in person.

 

[C@ssandr@]

I'm ovulating.

I was wondering why my sense of smell is heightened. I can smell everything. I also tend to notice men more easily.
I got an "innocuous" message in my inbox this morning from a dude I met at my friend's gathering last week. Now all of a sudden he's f**kable? I can't trust my hormones

 

[SlimPickinz]

Ok how we feel about dating older men? At he moment all of my suitors are older. From 4-18 years older than I am.

 

[C@ssandr@]

Ok how we feel about dating older men? At he moment all of my suitors are older. From 4-18 years older than I am.

I don't mind older as long as it's not more than 10 years difference.

 

[SlimPickinz]

I don't mind older as long as it's not more than 10 years difference.

Why 10? Would you make an exception for 11 yrs?

 

[periwinklepeach]

Ok how we feel about dating older men? At he moment all of my suitors are older. From 4-18 years older than I am.

I think I'd be fine with up to 42, although the number is kind of arbitrary. I'm 28 right now. I don't want anyone TOO old, but I would hope that an older man would have his life together. Although that never seems to be the case in my experiences.

 

[ScorpioBeauty09]

I don't understand this. Everywhere I go there are considerably more women than men. My core/abs & kickboxing classes, marketing/entrepreneurship classes and networking. I was at a networking event last night and there were around 5 guys, all of whom were either clearly attached or looked like lost puppies. And I'm going all over the Bay Area too. It's just strange.

Like where are the men?

 

[ms.tatiana]

I went 10 days without talking to him & I was doing just fine. Then he calls & I ignore it, & he calls again I answer. (A bunch of meaningless conversation happens). Today I call him no answer. Now I'm pissed all over again.

 

[Browndilocks]

Ok how we feel about dating older men? At he moment all of my suitors are older. From 4-18 years older than I am.

They take you on great trips.

 

[ScorpioLove]

DMV ladies.. any place in arlington you would recommend for a Saturday night?

I need an outfit for the football game this Friday. I got free tickets from my company and will be sitting with high level people from that. It's an opportunity to schmooze with the higher ups...and maybe run into someone cute enough to give my number to.

 

[HappyMadison]

My coworker just friend me on Facebook and went on a status liking spree. I am going to ignore that.

I told him right now I am about my paper. He is also a personal trainer and offered me free sessions. I don't do workplace, especially if I have to see your behind most of the year.

Don't do it sir...

 

[okange76]

@Shiks , your fellow countryman finally called and asked to hang out this weekend. He seemed so excited to explore the city with me. Hopefully we'll have a good time.

 

[movingforward13]

DMV ladies.. any place in arlington you would recommend for a Saturday night?

I need an outfit for the football game this Friday. I got free tickets from my company and will be sitting with high level people from that. It's an opportunity to schmooze with the higher ups...and maybe run into someone cute enough to give my number to.

Let me know if you need a road dog

 

[Shiks]

@Shiks , your fellow countryman finally called and asked to hang out this weekend. He seemed so excited to explore the city with me. Hopefully we'll have a good time.

Does the shoki...have fun and let me know how it goes. Sending lots of good vibes.

 

[C@ssandr@]

Why 10? Would you make an exception for 11 yrs?

Maybe. I judge on a case by case basis.

I avoid dating older guys because of the cultural/generational gap. Being on the same wavelength in this regard is high up on the list for me.
Even though I am an old soul, I don't want no old man.

 

[SlimPickinz]

I am 27. So my ex was the oldest I had ever dated he's 6 years older than I am. But these new ones are older & idk if I like the gap. I'm also wondering if they're perverts that chase young girls cause of their naïveté.

Fancy vacations you say?? I shall keep that in mind.

 

[C@ssandr@]

I am 27. So my ex was the oldest I had ever dated he's 6 years older than I am. But these new ones are older & idk if I like the gap. I'm also wondering if they're perverts that chase young girls cause of their naïveté.

Fancy vacations you say?? I shall keep that in mind.

When I was 24 I dated someone 13 years my senior and this is exactly the reason he chose me...well not the perv part exactly. He was controlling and immature.

 

[TayMac]

I dated someone very briefly who was older but lied about his age which I later discovered. Pros..money/stability usually direct and can be more gentlemanly. Cons...they can just as "messy" as younger guys and try to play games, can be controlling as already stated

I think 10 years is good because even if someone acts youthful and looks great there can still be other differences that make things awkward or just not fun.


Eta.....I was 22 and he was 43

 

[KimPossibli]

I really want to vent about this wedding.....

so messy

 

[ScorpioLove]

I really want to vent about this wedding.....

so messy

... vent away

 

[RoundEyedGirl504]

I don't understand this. Everywhere I go there are considerably more women than men. My core/abs & kickboxing classes, marketing/entrepreneurship classes and networking. I was at a networking event last night and there were around 5 guys, all of whom were either clearly attached or looked like lost puppies. And I'm going all over the Bay Area too. It's just strange.

Like where are the men?

Happy hours and day parties, basically fun spots. In my experience, anything that's a formally arranged event the men are not there.

 

[silverbuttons]

Whenever I date men 7+ years older than me, it's about trying to out game them.

If they think I'm naive and cute.. I don't have any problem manipulating them from the "bottom".

 

[KimPossibli]

... vent away

Not yet.. but probably soon.

Kudos to those out there planning a wedding.

**** is not easy.

 

[ScorpioBeauty09]

Happy hours and day parties, basically fun spots. In my experience, anything that's a formally arranged event the men are not there.

I guess lol but what do you mean by hot spots?

 

[sgold04]

@ScorpioBeauty09
Sports bars, tailgate parties, frat organized events

 

[ScorpioBeauty09]

@ScorpioBeauty09
Sports bars, tailgate parties, frat organized events

Thanks. Ughhhhh, now I know why I have no interest in dating at least not while I live in the Bay Area.

 

[sgold04]

Thanks. Ughhhhh, now I know why I have no interest in dating at least not while I live in the Bay Area.

Ohhhhh, you're in the bay? Yikes! it's tough out there.

 

[Crackers Phinn]

My father was 10 years older than my mother and the dynamic of that age gap was never something I wanted for myself. The old man is 5 years older than me and that's more than enough.

Besides don't nobody want to sign up for nurse duty any sooner than they have to.