Just inexperienced.
Smh. Well can you send some to maryland cause I keep getting the opposite...Ok. Just this moment with dude sleeping next to me i realized for the first time:
Im commitment averse!!
Whoa. Just....whoa!
I am a commitment phobe and have been for a long time. I meet these guys and they want monogamous loving relationships and i just be trippin. Damn.
Well maybe its an opposites attract thing! If you start not giving a **** i bet the next rotation will produce at least 3 engagement rings! Lol
No like he almost threw up. I has a sensitive stomach apparently
Whaaaaaat?!
I have never heard of that. Everything is ok down there right? Maybe he's just a punk a$$.
I mean i really do try but it seems to get to a point with each bf that i find (real or manufactured) fatal flaws, get pissed at something insignificant and call it off... by ghosting. Last guy i was with a year and i just vanished on him. Looking back i see that's cold blooded. I remember him saying the L word in passing a few times and i got ANGRY. Damn.
On this board we always talking about saving and protecting ourselves from these jerk dudes but what if the a**hole is you?
but reading my previous posts about how I knew and just didn't fully trust my instincts and take action, have made me realize that my 'trust issue' is not really an issue with others at all. It was an issue with trusting myself enough to act on what I knew. An issue that I want to say I no longer have. So, all I have to do is trust myself and do what is necessary and I'll be ok. he'd been drinking when he said it, and it was in front of his friends *face palm* I was like ok babe you're drunk haha. But then he said it the next day while sober. And he's been saying it ever since 
lol
nice ass place tho. Oh, lots of the workers were black of course, serving 99% old white people, lawd. When we went to the banquet, we first sat at a table with some white people. He left to get us drinks, came back and said come on, I found some people I know. Cool. ....he ain't know them people, he just saw some black people he'd seen earlier 
I asked why the lie, sway? He said what was I supposed to say? Let's go, I found some black people to sit with? 
touche, sway, touche. We were talking. Hes military. He mentions he's retired. We were both like what?! This man looked 25yrs old, tops. Had to be at least 38? I was kinda over the top in my excitement of this lmao I was nearing drunk. We kept talking to the guy, but SO had his hand rubbing my knee for the remainder of the conversation and he was so cute with his compliments of my look all night. My dress was a hit. but he would always say "I know. I got a winner 
" to the woman lol.
that **** is annoying. I didn't realize I did it. Ok, I did, cuz my friends get annoyed when I do it to them and tell me to stop lmao, but I still think it's interesting that new people notice lol. I be interested in your life! Shoot lol
me, personable. That's hilarious. So I know all about his most recent ex. Knew about her from date 1 lol. He's said that she was really antisocial/wouldn't talk to no one/was really quiet/didn't like how they interacted with each other in public, by telling me the FUNNIEST stories of their relationship (he ultimately broke up with her and she cried and cried etc. I'm like what? From what you say, the chick clearly didn't like you rofl why was she so upset? Lmao). Anyway, I'm glad to have that confirmed by his dad.
Hey lil sisI was already a non-feeler/not very traditionally emotional person before my last break up. Add being cheated on to that, and any feels I had, have all but vanished
But after that, I'm still a non feeling person, but it's not AS bad as I was behaving
@aviddiva77 Re your post in the 'how men fall in love' thread. Yea, he beeeeen said that
! Thanks yea... agreed. Its the same issue here...trusting and running with my instincts. I tend to label ppl and that gets in the way sometimes. Likemy instincts might say so and so is a good person but my cynicism and crazy life experiences try to negate that so i run with the cynic. Its safer than take a leap. Wadda mess! I be makin therapists rich!
and will kick his ass for you!" and, "should we go to The Hood and mess him up in a gang war?!"
Ok y'all. I havent brought this up in a long time but the California bm thirst for ww is real. Tea straight off the presses.
An ww admin at my work (36) meets a bm firefighter at the mall (27). He asks her out. They have one dinner date. Afterward she texts him saying politely they are in diff places in life and due to that and age difference she wont go out with him again.
That was a week ago.
This negro blowing up her phone all day everyday begging for another date. Saying he better than all the rest, age dont matter, men her age are just fat etc.
She declines again.
He slowly devolves. Now its she's a gold digger (but he will treat her right), she been ****** too many men and starts calling her a slut and whore.
By this time she is amused and sharing the texts with us, her coworkers and friends at home. So she engages in one line texts saying hes rude just to illicit responses.
He goes on, continues pleading then offers to get her pregnant then marry her afterwards and they will have beautiful mixed chirren
As these come in i walk away because the low key racist bs starts with the coworkers "omg. Im from The Hood
Over the weekend he has devolved even further into dick pics and bragging over his prowess. She was laughing about it.
It is truly a mess. Her amusement and my secondhand embarrassmet over his tomfoolery.
If these ninjas only knew how these ww ridicule their desperation and the power trip they get from it. Oh well... and would it even matter to them?
I feel bad for any young single bw he might bang and throw away later in his over-enthusiastic lust for white vag.
what on earth?
Ok y'all. I havent brought this up in a long time but the California bm thirst for ww is real. Tea straight off the presses.
An ww admin at my work (36) meets a bm firefighter at the mall (27). He asks her out. They have one dinner date. Afterward she texts him saying politely they are in diff places in life and due to that and age difference she wont go out with him again.
That was a week ago.
This negro blowing up her phone all day everyday begging for another date. Saying he better than all the rest, age dont matter, men her age are just fat etc.
She declines again.
He slowly devolves. Now its she's a gold digger (but he will treat her right), she been ****** too many men and starts calling her a slut and whore.
By this time she is amused and sharing the texts with us, her coworkers and friends at home. So she engages in one line texts saying hes rude just to illicit responses.
He goes on, continues pleading then offers to get her pregnant then marry her afterwards and they will have beautiful mixed chirren
As these come in i walk away because the low key racist bs starts with the coworkers "omg. Im from The Hood
Over the weekend he has devolved even further into dick pics and bragging over his prowess. She was laughing about it.
It is truly a mess. Her amusement and my secondhand embarrassmet over his tomfoolery.
If these ninjas only knew how these ww ridicule their desperation and the power trip they get from it. Oh well... and would it even matter to them?
I feel bad for any young single bw he might bang and throw away later in his over-enthusiastic lust for white vag.
My thoughts too! Im sure the saga will continue throughout the week. She is considering screen capping his messages and dick pics to his firefighter captain or whatever to get him fired.
We can push his behind up to first in line!
Whats this?! These men are fools.
YES! Girl search dating in the bay area forum and you will have nothing but chuckles for days!Whats this?! These men are fools.
Girrrlll im about to go read this nonsense! Didnt know it existed. Time to amuse myself for sh.ts and giggles too
He doesnt know where she lives or works. She's considering playing white damsel just because she can. Some of these desperate for white cooch bm gone learn just how quick these manipulative ww can destroy their lives. Notice how i said earlier shes baiting him with her innocent "this is rude" type responses? A set up even though on the other end she laughing the whole time.
Ok y'all. I havent brought this up in a long time but the California bm thirst for ww is real. Tea straight off the presses.
An ww admin at my work (36) meets a bm firefighter at the mall (27). He asks her out. They have one dinner date. Afterward she texts him saying politely they are in diff places in life and due to that and age difference she wont go out with him again.
That was a week ago.
This negro blowing up her phone all day everyday begging for another date. Saying he better than all the rest, age dont matter, men her age are just fat etc.
She declines again.
He slowly devolves. Now its she's a gold digger (but he will treat her right), she been ****** too many men and starts calling her a slut and whore.
By this time she is amused and sharing the texts with us, her coworkers and friends at home. So she engages in one line texts saying hes rude just to illicit responses.
He goes on, continues pleading then offers to get her pregnant then marry her afterwards and they will have beautiful mixed chirren
As these come in i walk away because the low key racist bs starts with the coworkers "omg. Im from The Hood
Over the weekend he has devolved even further into dick pics and bragging over his prowess. She was laughing about it.
It is truly a mess. Her amusement and my secondhand embarrassmet over his tomfoolery.
If these ninjas only knew how these ww ridicule their desperation and the power trip they get from it. Oh well... and would it even matter to them?
I feel bad for any young single bw he might bang and throw away later in his over-enthusiastic lust for white vag.
We tried to tell y'all. BM in Cali are on some stuff I swear. But I need a laugh so I'm gonna look for this site.
