We had sex for the first time then immediately went to his dad's house for a cookout...where I met his family for the first time lol. I brought this up (sex, then meeting the fam) to him before hand and I'm so glad I did. Cuz we got the 'so what have yall been doing today' question. And when I'm backed into a corner, I either tell the whole truth, some unbelievable lie, or clam up lmao. But we had our story concocted before hand, thanks to me
cuz I literally got to his house, and we had sex
The sex was fantastic! I got really emotional, like I do, during orgasms lmao. I cry
I cried
a lot. Over and over again. And was still shaking when we got to dad's house smh my sex induced orgasms are a trip lol
He has the nicest, most friendly normal family, maaaaaan them folks, man, they some nice folks, man mm mm mm lol. Met dad, his bro and nephew, and aunts uncles cousins, even grandma lol. Everyone gave me a hug and was excited to meet me. They funny, too. Some folks were practicing my name before hand (it's kinda 'unique'/ghetto lmao) so when people saw me they were like "Hi qchelle!" Pronounced it all right and enunciated that **** I was like yeaaaa boiiii lmao (no, qchelle isn't my name lol).
His family is very family oriented, like him. These people. My god. His brother, ok he's super nice and was engaging me in conversation the whole time which I suuuuper appreciated. But why was we talking about damn marriage and babies!? He's like I'm ready to be an uncle, so do you want kids and when I'm like daaaaaaaaaamn Daniel! How do you people think this is appropriate what in the twilight zone hell?! I'm like ehhhhh maybe later, like 29, 30. He was talking about his wife and what she be talking about (she wasn't there) like someone gives af lmao. Blah blah. His cousin. They were joking with each other about who's having kids first. His aunt is like no no no yall need to be married first lmao. And they play all nicely together. They was playing games and ****. You know, like a normal family do? My ghetto ass over here thinking about my ratchet extended family like Mr.krabs again
I never had such a good time meeting someone's family tho. It was a real good time.
His family is probably smaller than mine, but none of my extended family lives in maryland. Unlike his. So he grew up in what I call big family life. It's so weird. I've noticed that people who grow up in big family life are so much better at communicating. It's like they're used to competing for attention/getting their words out over the other person better. Whereas small family life, you don't have to speak up or loudly or repeat yourself to get people's attention. So, I have a very soft, low voice unless I try hard, and if I say something and you don't hear me, idc it's not that important nevermind lol. Just an interesting observation ive noticed over the years.
My mom asks me questions about him when I bring him up. I'm glad she's taken somewhat of an interest smh lol.
I always like to see big black families with random light skin people in them mmhmm his family got them, yep. They got the 1-2 light skin punch
mmhmm that's good that's good give the light skin people some face time lol. See my family, we all black. So it's nice to see light skin families sometimes. And I looooooove the color dynamics of the couplings in his family. The darks are with darks, lights with lights, unloved mediums with unloved mediums (yall know yall wanna be in our drama, don't front lmao), and if it's a variation the woman is darker than the man yaaaassss. Even the young ones and teenagers! (You know, they usually lost ain't no coming back lmao smh) Sorry. But that's important to me
Oh, his bro, dad and cousin and him were talking about how they don't have no white friends and his bro is like I don't even like white people
he said this 1 time me and my wife went to this white guy coworker of hers house and I hope we never go back
And they were talking about how they all black doctors and stuff.
And they not on some super hardcore hbcu/frat/sorority tip neither
that's important to me, too, yea I said it. I like the idea of you can still be black and like black people and things without it having to be forced down your throat. It's like...you just genuinely like being black, no matter what. I think that's nice *shrugs*
But yea, I like his sex game and I like his family
I don't lie but I told him that I felt the question was premature and if you ask a a question like that too early, it can change things. So he insists that I answer the question, so I said "Yes, but I'll try not to for as long as I can"
And he says he can see himself...too. That was a week ago. Before that we used to hang out every 1-2 days. I'm supposed to see him tomorrow, though.
