Things have been going really well so far!
We see each other maybe once a week and weekends. We switch off. I love being at his place, it's so comfy. And I love seeing him do stuff around his place while I just sit there and talk to him and watch TVHe meal preps on Sunday and it's very sexy lol.
He remembers EVERYTHING I say, even if I mention it in passing! All while having a terrible memory when trying to remember his own thoughtsI don't remember ANYthing he mentions
this has never been brought up, I'm just telling yall my thoughts.
On that note, he's big on communicating. Especially when something is bothering him. So I'm not worried about that at all^^^. I really like that. It makes me feel safe to know I'm not doing anything to annoy him that I don't know of.
His birthday was this past weekend. I got him some red velvet cupcakes, his favorite! I met his best friends. There was a party. I mean he got **** faced lol. They were playing go-go (PG people). These *****es really like that ****! Amazing!
He got on my damn nerves that night. He started crying when we were back at his place lmaoooooooo. But he is going through some sad ish right now, so it's ok.
I really like that he's a homebody and don't be trying to be out in the streets. He always talks about how he's 'so old' (he's 27 lol). He is the sleepiest person I've ever met. He goes to bed at 830,9pm and wakes up at 6am and takes naps during the day lol. When we're together over the weekends, he starts yawning at 5,6pm. They be serious yawns, too!
He brings up marriage and babies a LOT. And talks about 'us' and what 'we're' doing and preparing for 'our future' and how we're a team and other stuff I won't even mention cuz he is crazy lol. Idk why he want kids, them kids would drive his sleepy ass crazy lol. I mentioned this to him and he said that was mean lmao and that he'd fake energy
I mentioned a baby being cute the other day and he said good, less convincing I'll have to do later
He's really touchy Feely and emotional. I am not lol. But it's cute when he does it and he makes me feel super secure, so it's cool.
I think the women in PG county are ******* mean cuz I've never experienced this level of cattiness. I know I've been dressing like a thot, and an extra thot when I'm with him, but wow some of these women have noooo regard/respect/couth/care at all. Just stank eye, smirking, out right saying crazy **** to me. I be like the mr.krabs meme lol
PG county sure do got some nice ass houses tho
He (and everyone in pg) likes to playfully **** on Baltimore, the bastards. I'd say I bring a nice Baltimore flair to him lmao.
He just got his std test back clean, so we'll be having sex pretty soon thank God I can't wait lol.
I have a bigger and better vocabulary than he does, so I help him with words sometimes. And he seems to genuinely like it! I helped him with 'embassy' and 'consulate' recently lol. He was very appreciative! He says I'm smarter than him but that he has his smart moments lol.
We have our first weekend getaway planned for the 1st weekend in August. His company's banquet thingy. I can't wait to see him in a suit. Ive requested he wear a bow tie lol.
Speaking of clothing. What do yall think of men who wear ripped jeans? GAY, right? Yea, me too lmao. Well, not in PG county. *****s were rocking the ripped jeans all up and through that party!I felt like I was in the Twilight Zone! They all can't be gay, right?
He'll ask me to give input on what he's wearing/tell him if I don't like something and he'll change. Nah I'm good, that's futile lmao.
Im really digging him so far and I do hope that he's digging me, too. I'm trying to properly read everything while still opening up. I wonder if I'm doing a good job? I guess we'll see...
And tell dem hatin' arse heauxs to kiss what you twist!! lmaooo
I thought it might seem lighthearted since I already call him Dr.___, but I def dont want him to think I dont like him for who he is right now and am only focused on who he will ultimately be. Do you all think I should stop calling him Dr. altogether? I know he is under a lot of stress, so I only want to be a retreat from school not a constant reminder.
He bought me a drink and we talked. I found out that his parents are Jamaican. This sounds good, but we'll see.
Yes...
OK guys, I guess I'll save my thoughtfulness for some other time.
Damn I want your life right now :/Things have been going really well so far!
We see each other maybe once a week and weekends. We switch off. I love being at his place, it's so comfy. And I love seeing him do stuff around his place while I just sit there and talk to him and watch TV
He remembers EVERYTHING I say, even if I mention it in passing! All while having a terrible memory when trying to remember his own thoughts
On that note, he's big on communicating. Especially when something is bothering him. So I'm not worried about that at all^^^. I really like that. It makes me feel safe to know I'm not doing anything to annoy him that I don't know of.
His birthday was this past weekend. I got him some red velvet cupcakes, his favorite! I met his best friends. There was a party. I mean he got **** faced lol. They were playing go-go (PG people). These *****es really like that ****! Amazing!
He got on my damn nerves that night. He started crying when we were back at his place lmaoooooooo. But he is going through some sad ish right now, so it's ok.
I really like that he's a homebody and don't be trying to be out in the streets. He always talks about how he's 'so old' (he's 27 lol). He is the sleepiest person I've ever met. He goes to bed at 830,9pm and wakes up at 6am and takes naps during the day lol. When we're together over the weekends, he starts yawning at 5,6pm. They be serious yawns, too!
He brings up marriage and babies a LOT. And talks about 'us' and what 'we're' doing and preparing for 'our future' and how we're a team and other stuff I won't even mention cuz he is crazy lol. Idk why he want kids, them kids would drive his sleepy ass crazy lol. I mentioned this to him and he said that was mean lmao and that he'd fake energy
I mentioned a baby being cute the other day and he said good, less convincing I'll have to do later
He's really touchy Feely and emotional. I am not lol. But it's cute when he does it and he makes me feel super secure, so it's cool.
I think the women in PG county are ******* mean cuz I've never experienced this level of cattiness. I know I've been dressing like a thot, and an extra thot when I'm with him, but wow some of these women have noooo regard/respect/couth/care at all. Just stank eye, smirking, out right saying crazy **** to me. I be like the mr.krabs meme lol
PG county sure do got some nice ass houses tho
He (and everyone in pg) likes to playfully **** on Baltimore, the bastards. I'd say I bring a nice Baltimore flair to him lmao.
He just got his std test back clean, so we'll be having sex pretty soon thank God I can't wait lol.
I have a bigger and better vocabulary than he does, so I help him with words sometimes. And he seems to genuinely like it! I helped him with 'embassy' and 'consulate' recently lol. He was very appreciative! He says I'm smarter than him but that he has his smart moments lol.
We have our first weekend getaway planned for the 1st weekend in August. His company's banquet thingy. I can't wait to see him in a suit. Ive requested he wear a bow tie lol.
Speaking of clothing. What do yall think of men who wear ripped jeans? GAY, right? Yea, me too lmao. Well, not in PG county. *****s were rocking the ripped jeans all up and through that party!
He'll ask me to give input on what he's wearing/tell him if I don't like something and he'll change. Nah I'm good, that's futile lmao.
Im really digging him so far and I do hope that he's digging me, too. I'm trying to properly read everything while still opening up. I wonder if I'm doing a good job? I guess we'll see...
I love this. He sounds like a good one. How did you meet him? How long before yall made it official? Details, more details please!Things have been going really well so far!
We see each other maybe once a week and weekends. We switch off. I love being at his place, it's so comfy. And I love seeing him do stuff around his place while I just sit there and talk to him and watch TV
He remembers EVERYTHING I say, even if I mention it in passing! All while having a terrible memory when trying to remember his own thoughts
On that note, he's big on communicating. Especially when something is bothering him. So I'm not worried about that at all^^^. I really like that. It makes me feel safe to know I'm not doing anything to annoy him that I don't know of.
His birthday was this past weekend. I got him some red velvet cupcakes, his favorite! I met his best friends. There was a party. I mean he got **** faced lol. They were playing go-go (PG people). These *****es really like that ****! Amazing!
He got on my damn nerves that night. He started crying when we were back at his place lmaoooooooo. But he is going through some sad ish right now, so it's ok.
I really like that he's a homebody and don't be trying to be out in the streets. He always talks about how he's 'so old' (he's 27 lol). He is the sleepiest person I've ever met. He goes to bed at 830,9pm and wakes up at 6am and takes naps during the day lol. When we're together over the weekends, he starts yawning at 5,6pm. They be serious yawns, too!
He brings up marriage and babies a LOT. And talks about 'us' and what 'we're' doing and preparing for 'our future' and how we're a team and other stuff I won't even mention cuz he is crazy lol. Idk why he want kids, them kids would drive his sleepy ass crazy lol. I mentioned this to him and he said that was mean lmao and that he'd fake energy
I mentioned a baby being cute the other day and he said good, less convincing I'll have to do later
He's really touchy Feely and emotional. I am not lol. But it's cute when he does it and he makes me feel super secure, so it's cool.
I think the women in PG county are ******* mean cuz I've never experienced this level of cattiness. I know I've been dressing like a thot, and an extra thot when I'm with him, but wow some of these women have noooo regard/respect/couth/care at all. Just stank eye, smirking, out right saying crazy **** to me. I be like the mr.krabs meme lol
PG county sure do got some nice ass houses tho
He (and everyone in pg) likes to playfully **** on Baltimore, the bastards. I'd say I bring a nice Baltimore flair to him lmao.
He just got his std test back clean, so we'll be having sex pretty soon thank God I can't wait lol.
I have a bigger and better vocabulary than he does, so I help him with words sometimes. And he seems to genuinely like it! I helped him with 'embassy' and 'consulate' recently lol. He was very appreciative! He says I'm smarter than him but that he has his smart moments lol.
We have our first weekend getaway planned for the 1st weekend in August. His company's banquet thingy. I can't wait to see him in a suit. Ive requested he wear a bow tie lol.
Speaking of clothing. What do yall think of men who wear ripped jeans? GAY, right? Yea, me too lmao. Well, not in PG county. *****s were rocking the ripped jeans all up and through that party!
He'll ask me to give input on what he's wearing/tell him if I don't like something and he'll change. Nah I'm good, that's futile lmao.
Im really digging him so far and I do hope that he's digging me, too. I'm trying to properly read everything while still opening up. I wonder if I'm doing a good job? I guess we'll see...
It's officially past the 2 yr mark from when I last had sex and I'm dying out here. I'm online dating so we'll see how it goes. I really wish I could get my sexy back but I think it's gone until I actually start having sex again
but this is exactly the dynamic I wanted. I've never experienced this kind of stuff this way/type of guy, so it's new and scary. but he would've cried lmaooo so I'll tell yall instead another reason why I should post here lol. again, not a joke he would appreciate Hold up hold up! Y'all ain't had sex yet and he's doing all of that?! GIRL. Does he have a brother? A cousin? Hell I'll take the neighbor down the street. GIRL. Why you playin'?!No, you don't lol. I'm going through some ish right now...
Thanks. He does sound like a good one, doesn't he? I'm trying not to be completely and utterly jaded af. Sometimes I want to react badly to the good stuff that he does and says. And laugh at him and call him a maroon for being so sappy all the time
We met on okcupid in mid May. My god sister knows him and we have a few mutual associates. They went to college together. I could only find people to say good things about him. We met in person mid June (I was too busy to meet before that). He was really persistent in his chase. And I liked him and thought he was definitely worth my time, from the limited information I knew about him. He officially asked late June. That happened fast, but nothing seemed wrong about it to me.
And idk why I thought he would slow down with the damn antics, but that's not happening. Blah blah, I made some special side dish for him recently to go along with my regularly scheduled dinner. He loved it. He asked if I could 'cook for him' once a month. Biiiiiiitch. I said sure, but then I want to eat at a high end restaurant once a month. He kinda hemmed and hawed about the cost and agreed and then went into this spiel about the breakdown of his budget and how he is wanting to sell his townhouse and buy a new house (which I knew) and that he's "saving money for a down payment for our house" .......now. I don't think he realizes how crazy he sounds to me lmfao. He sounds kookoo for coco puffs when he talks like this. But I've stopped telling him this, because it doesn't matter, he's just going to keep doing it
Hey, be crazy, no skin off my nose lol. No, but what I really wanted to say was "dawg. I just want to go to a fancy restaurant. I don't want a house! Wtf are you talking about?!"
I just want to know who told him I wanted to get married and stuff? Did we talk about this stuff in that much depth?! Very well could've, cuz like I said, I don't remember ANYthing
If he's doing all this stuff to have sex with me...poor thing. It surely don't take this much to have sex with me
I need quit playing like I don't miss myself. I wanna get back together with me!
And the babe finds that normal and fine. I think I said on here before that his parents are divorced, but remarried. Well his mom is actually engaged...to a guy who proposed 6 months in. He said 'we get married fast in my family...watch out. Haha'. -_- is this how men feel when women won't stop talking about marriage? Yall. Stfu. Lol We will be having sex very soon 
It's officially past the 2 yr mark from when I last had sex and I'm dying out here. I'm online dating so we'll see how it goes. I really wish I could get my sexy back but I think it's gone until I actually start having sex again
It's officially past the 2 yr mark from when I last had sex and I'm dying out here. I'm online dating so we'll see how it goes. I really wish I could get my sexy back but I think it's gone until I actually start having sex again
This is my definition of the two but I know it can be different for everyone. When I was feeling lonely it was like a I'll never find anyone feeling, everybody has somebody but me, screw it I'll just be a dog lady or that fly arse aunt that never got married.
I'm alone now and I'm cool with it, it's an acceptance and more like yea I don't have anybody but I have my friends, family, and goals to work on. It's also a freeing feeling, like ohhh when y'all wanna take this trip? And being able to be totally selfish and do you in every which way possible without worrying about a nukkas feelings. I think there is a marked difference in the way you feel about it, alone is acceptance of the fact that you don't have anyone but meh...you aren't dwelling or tripping about it. ....sorry for the rambling
