MzLady78
Well-Known Member
Sorry @UniquelyDivine.
Sigh....yesterday was ROUGH for me. I had a couple mini meltdowns but I'm a thug so I'll be back to normal soon.
I kept questioning if I did the right thing by pulling the plug but I deep down I know I did, it just sucks when you're chilling and some fool comes in your life and wreaks havoc.
I don't want to out right ask what happened, so I'll just ask did he start acting differently? Did a deal breaker come up?
TOTALLY different...like Jekyll & Hyde! Turns out he's a drunk, baby boy has some serious issues and he knows it. Had me fooled girl.
Damn. I'm really sorry to hear that. At least you found out early!
So I'm catching up with this dude from around my old way. He was younger and had a huge crush on me, but we lost touch yeeears ago. I noticed he commented on a mutual friend's status, so I said what's up to him and he sent me a friend request.
This ninja told me he just broke up with his 7 kid, 19 year long baby mama 3 weeks ago. Talking about he can't believe it's me, he thought about me not too long ago and sending eye-heart emojis and ish.
Ain't no way in hell, and if he thinks this is anything more than a friendly catch-up, he is sadly mistaken.
I can't even say I'm surprised, though. It wasn't like I had high hopes for him back in the day. He was a sweet kid, but stayed in some ish.
He wants to make baby #8 with ya! LOL!!
Hoooweee. I relate!I love being single. I just love it. It's the only time I truly feel like I can be me. I'm always happier.
I was having a convo about relationships with this guy. We were talking about our exes, various experinces etc. and he said something really interesting. He said that overall it seems that I have a generally negative view of relationships. He said I look at them as something that stifles me and prevents me from being my total self. So I told him yeah, that's about right no biggie. Then he said that a relationship is supposed to help me and make me feel empowered & anything but stifled. He asked me if I could name at least 1 ex who didn't make me feel like I was conforming or being smothered. I couldn't.
I didn't feel like starting a thread on this but to make a long story short I overheard two guys referring to me as a "nice one" at work. What exactly does that mean?
If they were in front of you, they think you're attractive or have nice bewbs. If they were behind you, they think you have a nice booty or body.
The guy I recently started dating has a bday next month and Id like to get him a cute, but reasonably priced gift ($30 max). He's in med school and I always call him Dr.___ (speaking it into existence lol), so I was thinking about gifting him one of these with his name, of course. Thoughts?
Really cute. I think it looks very thoughtful and shows that you thought about it in advance in order to have time to have it personalized and delivered.
I agree w/ the male friend. It's thoughtful but inappropriateSo I was getting my married male friend's opinion and he said I shouldnt give him the hanger, because it will put too much extra pressure on him and make it appear that I am "too invested" in him being a doctor. Thoughts?
I'd only do this sort of personalized gift for someone I was in a committed relationship with.So I was getting my married male friend's opinion and he said I shouldnt give him the hanger, because it will put too much extra pressure on him and make it appear that I am "too invested" in him being a doctor. Thoughts?
So I was getting my married male friend's opinion and he said I shouldnt give him the hanger, because it will put too much extra pressure on him and make it appear that I am "too invested" in him being a doctor. Thoughts?