*-*Single Ladies Support Thread!!*-*

I had no electricity at home from 6am - 3pm today after the power was knocked out due to early morning lightning and wind thunderstorms.
Thankfully today was not extremely hot or cold.
I have lived in my home for almost 15 years and this is the 1st time I have lost power while I was at home (I live really close to a fire station and several ERs so I thought I was on the grid.. I guess not lol).

I read, journaled and relaxed majority of the day... then I had to go outside and clean up when the day cleared up (my large trash can and recycling bin blew over).. times like THIS I desire a generous, useful man in my life.
 
ItsMeLilLucky said:
Girl if you ever met me irl I do :lachen:
I tell you truly I'm the same person online and off.
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I can tell over the years, so I’m not trying to be dismissive of your font style or your personality. I just want to acknowledge that if it is hormones, then it’s a real thing and that hormones fluctuating has real challenges and causes for concern. And people dismiss that or try to say women can be problematic because of it.
 
Evolving78 said:
I can tell over the years, so I’m not trying to be dismissive of your font style or your personality. I just want to acknowledge that if it is hormones, then it’s a real thing and that hormones fluctuating has real challenges and causes for concern. And people dismiss that or try to say women can be problematic because of it.
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That is so true. I can tell when my cycle is coming because my thoughts seem to change from the "normal" path.
 
Bette Davis Eyes said:
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Yes!!! Lololol @Evolving78
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This is how I imagined you typing yes like what about it.

I have had to go to half caf during the week or two before as it shuts me down but for extra spice I may sleep 3 hrs each so you would think coffee would be helpful. I’m truly am amazed I’m still here and working.
 
If I start drinking the tea before it gets heavy , it keeps me on the up and up but if I’m really going through it, im on that salty , sugar and caffeine high and then misery.

OAN , I saw my boo. It was delightful for two hours. He rubbed my feet. Made me ginger tea and cuddled me. Then I drove home thru a thunderstorm.
 
Y'all I'm back. (Although I don't think I was missed lol).

Its been months, I think. It's hard for me to do life and write about it on the Internet :cry3: but I enjoyed reading all of the posts I missed. It's fun in here :)

I've actually been recovering from burn out. I also get bouts of chronic fatigue so I'm not doing too much lately...but it all feels good.

I am not dating, but a funny thing happened! A friend of mine was gushing about a guy she met online and how she is enjoying their conversations etc, etc. Come to find out, it's a guy I dealt with very briefly who eventually faded out (no drama of nothing like that). For some reason now that they are talking (which I have 0 qualms with) I feel validated in my observation: which is that the quality of men around us (specifically me and her) are not completely trash. (Which is a good thing!

He and I faded out because I wasn't too keen on his personality (maybe he felt the same about me, idk). Nothing too terrible, it's just that we didn't mesh. But those traits I saw in him are ones that she actually likes lol. They have a first date coming up and I'm rooting for her to have a good time since she hasn't had a good date in a while (she just divorced).

New topic, lol. I have been putting myself out there off and on for 3+ years. But I just wasn't ready. I only started dating because "people" said I should. In reality I had not completely healed from my breakup. We were engaged (practically married). And I had to deal with dismantling all of the wedding planning. We were booked and everything chile ...

Anywho, so now, NOW, I'm back to me. I finally feel like I have grounding and I feel whole for lack of a better word. I suspect the weather has something to do with it also. Looking back, there was just no way I could enter the market considering where my head and my heart was at.

I'm not completely ready to date yet, but I am. Much happier with where I am, so there's that.
 
Hello beautiful @C@ssandr@! I thought you may have sailed off into lovers lane. When it gets super quiet I’m like ok the babes are out being jetsetted to lake como for date night.

I am glad you’re recovering from burn out it’s something I deal with and often not discussed because society thinks it’s normal. When your burnt out it’s like a cellphone looking for service in the woods what’s routine takes exponentially more effort.

We are all the embodiment of love we wish to have they just popped out of my intuition.
 
The Tim Mcgraw concert was great! I enjoyed myself. Tomorrow i'm gonna head out and watch the pride parade and hit up the pride festival.
Next weekend is the art festival and the weekend after that is the Juneteenth parade here. My june is packed!

I'll hit up the farmers market for some fresh fruit in the upcoming weeks. I'm trying to lose weight in a healthy way.

I've been driving to work every day and i'm still working up the courage to hit the expressway but I get scared sometimes and talk myself out of it.

Still enjoying the single life and not interested in dating any time soon. I'm focused on school and work right now.
 
CoiledOrchids said:
The Tim Mcgraw concert was great! I enjoyed myself. Tomorrow i'm gonna head out and watch the pride parade and hit up the pride festival.
Next weekend is the art festival and the weekend after that is the Juneteenth parade here. My june is packed!

I'll hit up the farmers market for some fresh fruit in the upcoming weeks. I'm trying to lose weight in a healthy way.

I've been driving to work every day and i'm still working up the courage to hit the expressway but I get scared sometimes and talk myself out of it.

Still enjoying the single life and not interested in dating any time soon. I'm focused on school and work right now.
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I love this for you so much.
 
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