*-*Single Ladies Support Thread!!*-*

[Bette Davis Eyes]

I just wanna be on an island with endlessly drinks. The perfect temperature and no worries.

I know there’s an island somewhere , where men will worship me and not let me lift a hand.

“Squints into the skyline “

 

[Bette Davis Eyes]

I saw my sugah and all is right in the world.

Wow, I really did have an attitude lolololol.

 

[CoiledOrchids]

debating on when I should take these braids out. I'm sick of looking at them but I'm also not ready to actually do my hair

 

[Bette Davis Eyes]

I was at the school picking up my son and his friends. I was cleaning the back seat out , minding my business. I get back in the front seat to wait and a man walks by my door before he attempted to walk into the Administration building. He’s reasonably handsome. Look around mid30s-40. We make eye contact and he hesitates. Then he walks close to my door.

I roll the window down and say yes?

Him: I just wanted to say , you are so beautiful. I darn near crashed my car pulling over.
Me: Thank you.
Him: Look at the band on my ring finger. Are you married?
Me: No, but I’m in a relationship.
Him: Would you mind taking my number? Maybe , we could be friends. Friends can last a long time. Possibly longer than a relationship can
Me: No, thank you
Him : Well, I just wanted to say you’re absolutely beautiful. You sure I can’t give you my number ?
Me: No, thank you. Have a good day.

He walks into the building and I just smile to myself. I get out the car later on with a little bounce in my step. Sometimes male appreciation is nice. I raised my eye at the friend’s comment but he was respectful and didn’t lean into the car. Politely walked away and said Have a good day.

 

[Plushottie]

@Bette Davis Eyes I can respect that you fione so like I am not mad he persisted and it’s nice to be seen esp as you have been watering the most rare flower, you.

 

[Bette Davis Eyes]

I like that. Watering the most rare flower.

I hope you realize that YOU need to do the same and give YOU grace @Plushottie

 

[Bette Davis Eyes]

This the one.

 

[yaya24]

This the one.

Ok!! Lol It reminds me of a meme I saw a while back that's been etched in my mind ever since the day I saw it:

"If you think she looks materialistic, why approach her with no materials?"

For real!! Lol

 

[lavaflow99]

 

[Plushottie]

I know this is not nice but I’m tired of folks getting applauds/likes/platform for basic common ideas esp men.

 

[Bette Davis Eyes]

Took the kiddo to the park and a nice time was had.

 

[CoiledOrchids]

yall. I'm on IG now and I don't know what to put as my first post.

I hate taking pics of myself but i'm ok with pics of random stuff. I'm trying to figure out a good first post.

 

[yaya24]

yall. I'm on IG now and I don't know what to put as my first post.

I hate taking pics of myself but i'm ok with pics of random stuff. I'm trying to figure out a good first post.

Don't over think it. Just post a pretty picture and a cute caption. It doesn't have to be a photo of you if you don't want to do that (yet).

As you get comfy def post pics of yourself, or you and friends or you out at a fun/ cute place.

I didn't join IG until 2014 (later joiner) and only joined bc my sister was getting married (destination wedding) and she wanted us to use her hashtag so she could save the pics.. My next post was not until 2017.. THREE YEARS LATER..LOL.

I use stories more than posts. But just don't put too much thought into it.. unless you are looking to become a social media influencer or content creator. With that route, I'm sure there are formulas to successfully grow your target audience etc.

 

[yaya24]

Ok!! Lol It reminds me of a meme I saw a while back that's been etched in my mind ever since the day I saw it:

"If you think she looks materialistic, why approach her with no materials?"

For real!! Lol

Too funny! This lady on IG posted this today!

Life With Shawnda on Instagram: "A man leaves a voice note for a women on a dating app saying she looks like she deserves the world but he’s not sure he could give her that. What are your thoughts? #dating #datingtips #datingadvice #relationships #da

3,154 likes, 446 comments - lifewithshawnda on April 28, 2024: "A man leaves a voice note for a women on a dating app saying she looks like she deserves the world but he’s not sure he could give her that. What are your thoughts? #dating #datingtips #datingadvice #relationships #datingapps"...

www.instagram.com

 

[Bette Davis Eyes]

Too funny! This lady on IG posted this today!

Life With Shawnda on Instagram: "A man leaves a voice note for a women on a dating app saying she looks like she deserves the world but he’s not sure he could give her that. What are your thoughts? #dating #datingtips #datingadvice #relationships #da

3,154 likes, 446 comments - lifewithshawnda on April 28, 2024: "A man leaves a voice note for a women on a dating app saying she looks like she deserves the world but he’s not sure he could give her that. What are your thoughts? #dating #datingtips #datingadvice #relationships #datingapps"...

www.instagram.com

Exactly. Just stay in your lane @yaya24

 

[Plushottie]

This really random I guess I’m having a moment of weirdness. I desire a relationship. I may come to my senses and override human stuff because it’s odd.

 

[yaya24]

This really random I guess I’m having a moment of weirdness. I desire a relationship. I may come to my senses and override human stuff because it’s odd.

It's not odd! Mutual relationships are beautiful. They flourish & bloom when they are watered and nourished.

We just have to know when to prune and cut the dead stuff off. That's the uncomfortable part right.

 

[Plushottie]

It's not odd! Mutual relationships are beautiful. They flourish & bloom when they are watered and nourished.

We just have to know when to prune and cut the dead stuff off. That's the uncomfortable part right.

You are right but I so feel that’s human stuff lol and I’m like a Martian. I don’t even know where to begin to search and I don’t mean chasing because gross. But I’m going to need to sit with self because I’m not a city girl I enjoy solitude and going out has never been enjoyable because money but I know the game lol. But I had to share this with folks. Being single 17 yrs really does something.

 

[Bette Davis Eyes]

Made me a drink.

Sitting on this zoom call, feeling delightful.

 

[Plushottie]

What you sipping @Bette Davis Eyes

 

[Bette Davis Eyes]

I mixed up a lot of stuff. Don’t judge me lol. @Plushottie

Bacardi coconut rum.
Peach XXL
Captain Morgan Spice rum
Crown Royal Peach
Peach Bellini

 

[Plushottie]

@Bette Davis Eyes no judgement from me, that’s a fun time recipe.

 

[Bette Davis Eyes]

I see you and time stops. When you leave time starts. A glance at you , a smile towards you.. divine ... art. Would you wonder , would you wish... I know I did.. when you ....kissed.. me.

 

[Bette Davis Eyes]

I had a lovely calorie filled breakfast and enjoyed every bite.

 

[lavaflow99]

Andrew Flanagan on Instagram

743K likes, 6,085 comments - toothpickdad_af on April 4, 2024

www.instagram.com

 

[lavaflow99]

 

[Bette Davis Eyes]

Menstrual cycles are the bane of my existence.

 

[lavaflow99]

Menstrual cycles are the bane of my existence.

Get that IUD. Game changer!! I wish I had got it sooner.

 

[Bette Davis Eyes]

has it messed with your hormones ? @lavaflow99

Any side effects ? Which one do you have ?

 

[Sosoothing]

@Bette Davis Eyes

You didn't ask me but I have the kyleena. I LOVE it. Have had it coming on 5 years now. Getting it replaced this year.

The only side effect I have noticed is the absence of a menstrual cycle. And no pregnancies of course Lol.