UmSumayyah
Well-Known Member
How do you feel about a man that brings flowers on the first date?
I didnt know guys still did this either.
You cant get a dude to open your car door for you nowadays so bringing flowers is just a whole nother realm IMO.
I'd be shocked as all hell if a dude showed up at my door with flowers.
I can count how many times I've actually even recieved flowers, and one of those times I had to ASK him for a bouquet.
Wow, really ladies? I have only been on one first date where the man didn't bring me flowers.
Like I said, they are not a dealbreaker but I enjoy them. Opening doors and pulling out chairs though? Straight up dealbreakers. Not doing those will not get you a second date and it might make the first one end abruptly.
Um I find it kind of corny...but its a nice gesture..it doesn't make him or break him in my opinion
How do you feel about a man that brings flowers on the first date?
Wow, really ladies? I have only been on one first date where the man didn't bring me flowers.
Like I said, they are not a dealbreaker but I enjoy them. Opening doors and pulling out chairs though? Straight up dealbreakers. Not doing those will not get you a second date and it might make the first one end abruptly.
Um I find it kind of corny...but its a nice gesture..it doesn't make him or break him in my opinion
Wow, really ladies? I have only been on one first date where the man didn't bring me flowers.
Like I said, they are not a dealbreaker but I enjoy them. Opening doors and pulling out chairs though? Straight up dealbreakers. Not doing those will not get you a second date and it might make the first one end abruptly.[/quote]
I couldn't agree more.
A guy in this day and age? I'd be shocked out of my mind.
Then I'd think that he must be really close with his mother, and that she raised him to be a gentlemen. I ain't gone lie-- I'd be impressed. This isn't the typical Joe Blow of our generation.
If he showed up flowerless, I wouldn't be surprised. Wouldn't count it against him either, I'd just think I was dealing with your typical Joe Blow.