SelahOco
Well-Known Member
I'm watching this relationship rescue show with dmx and his wife and he is breaking down about how his mother never told him she loved him. He is sobbing and really hurting and his wife shows so much compassion for him. You can tell she really loves him.
She has been married to this man for like 15-20 years and he has 4-5 outside kids on her. On this show he shouts at her that he is gonna screw until his penis falls off and she just needs to get over it.
He has treated her like trash and here he is crying about his mom and I can see her heart breaking for him.
It just made me think about all the women on this site who wonder if they should stay with a man out of her own compassion and understanding for his situation - regardless to how it impacts her.
It just made me think about how important it is for a woman to guard her heart and protect herself. Women are so giving and loving and compassionate that sometimes we feel we need to help a man heal or help him get on his feet.
But some men just have problems that you are not designed to help them with. And the more you want to help, the more you have to deal with the fall out of what is missing inside of him.
Seeing dmx lash out at his wife reminds me of when my mom found a cat in a garage who had just had kittens. My mom was trying to help the cat and her babies and the cat attacked her. She ended up having to get a bunch of painful shots as a result.
Sometimes we just are not supposed to 'help' a broken man or take responsibility for fixing him. Hurting people lash out and the pain they feel is just aimed at you for being there.
I feel for dmx, but I feel more for his wife. I see so much of myself in her and so much of every woman I know. He stays attaching her and she stays taking shots...
Why are women so accommodating? We have to stop feeling guilty for not taking on these projects.
Just something on my mind....
She has been married to this man for like 15-20 years and he has 4-5 outside kids on her. On this show he shouts at her that he is gonna screw until his penis falls off and she just needs to get over it.
He has treated her like trash and here he is crying about his mom and I can see her heart breaking for him.
It just made me think about all the women on this site who wonder if they should stay with a man out of her own compassion and understanding for his situation - regardless to how it impacts her.
It just made me think about how important it is for a woman to guard her heart and protect herself. Women are so giving and loving and compassionate that sometimes we feel we need to help a man heal or help him get on his feet.
But some men just have problems that you are not designed to help them with. And the more you want to help, the more you have to deal with the fall out of what is missing inside of him.
Seeing dmx lash out at his wife reminds me of when my mom found a cat in a garage who had just had kittens. My mom was trying to help the cat and her babies and the cat attacked her. She ended up having to get a bunch of painful shots as a result.
Sometimes we just are not supposed to 'help' a broken man or take responsibility for fixing him. Hurting people lash out and the pain they feel is just aimed at you for being there.
I feel for dmx, but I feel more for his wife. I see so much of myself in her and so much of every woman I know. He stays attaching her and she stays taking shots...
Why are women so accommodating? We have to stop feeling guilty for not taking on these projects.
Just something on my mind....