PrissiSippi
Simply Komplex
Befell like a feminist. It's the Fourth of July so of course I spent time with my future in laws. My bf was kinda sad about our relationship about a month ago and told his parents about the situation but I'm not so sure how in depth. So his parents asked us how was everything and were we ready to set a wedding date. I told her truthfully that we were working on our relationship but I get frustrated by the fact that he doesn't help around the house, we don't talk finances, I have to tell him Things that need to get done, and he's just not good with manly stuff around the house so I feel overburdened.
Lol they basically told me to accept he won't ever change and if I want the house clean should just clean it. Thats true. He won't change. They explained That's my role as a wife. I probably do sound condescending but of course I asked what exactly is the role of a husband then? Long gone are the days where the man pays all the bills and the woman cooks and cleans. Look I pay half of the bills. I cook, laundering, clean, and take care of the house. If I just "suck it up" and clean the house or get the lawned mowed if he doesn't exactly what in Hades do I need you for? You are an additional child.
They told me I need to realize that many would love to be with him. He's caring a engineer with money with no kids and very considerate but do they not realize I can say the same? I'm younger than him at 26 with a good job no kids and very ambitious sitting two years away from a doctorate and a nice bank account? Puh lease! A guy would be LUCKY to have me.
They say I have a lot to learn as a wife and if I have this same attitude by next year his mom will recommend that we not get married. Lol I totally understand I'll say the same probably to my sob's future wife but to be honest this is a reminder to myself don't let my child be book smart but lazy as heck. Encourage him to be self sufficient in all areas. I am not captain save a heaaaax for a boy
Lol they basically told me to accept he won't ever change and if I want the house clean should just clean it. Thats true. He won't change. They explained That's my role as a wife. I probably do sound condescending but of course I asked what exactly is the role of a husband then? Long gone are the days where the man pays all the bills and the woman cooks and cleans. Look I pay half of the bills. I cook, laundering, clean, and take care of the house. If I just "suck it up" and clean the house or get the lawned mowed if he doesn't exactly what in Hades do I need you for? You are an additional child.
They told me I need to realize that many would love to be with him. He's caring a engineer with money with no kids and very considerate but do they not realize I can say the same? I'm younger than him at 26 with a good job no kids and very ambitious sitting two years away from a doctorate and a nice bank account? Puh lease! A guy would be LUCKY to have me.
They say I have a lot to learn as a wife and if I have this same attitude by next year his mom will recommend that we not get married. Lol I totally understand I'll say the same probably to my sob's future wife but to be honest this is a reminder to myself don't let my child be book smart but lazy as heck. Encourage him to be self sufficient in all areas. I am not captain save a heaaaax for a boy