PrissyHippie
Well-Known Member
Yup, that's where I am in my life now...a non-virgin who is staying celibate until marriage. No need to emphasize the challenges of this and how challenging it is to meet someone who is willing to do the same. However, I do find it encouraging when I hear accounts of people who were able to do this successfully. I know of only two such stories. But in both cases, the girls were virgins and they guys were not, but were willing to wait to until they married. In both cases, they are still together so that is good news for them. The guys both shared how although it was extremely difficult some nights, lol, they were at a point in their life where they wanted quality and a life time of pleasure, not just a night or a few weeks of fun. So it worked really well.
So far, Im on year three now of no coloring and I'm single; unfortuantely I haven't met anyone that's a good match for me (I'm a single mom, so they have to be a good match for my daughter too ). But I would like to know, for whatever your reason is, have any of you non-virgin ladies or gents resolved to wait until marriage before coloring again and succeeded at this? How did your partner cope with this?
Hola,
I am also a Celibate Single Mum. !
I have friends that remained celibate until marriage. Both parties entered into the courtship with the same goal. They set strict boundaries.