menina said:well dang yall i bumped this thread for encouragement and come back to these horror stories. i'm sorry about your past experiences and hope that you get partners who want to make you happy in all areas of the relationship.
i do believe there are ways to avoid that and get an idea of how your partner will treat you by how he treats you outside of the bedroom. since the actual the literal act isn't rocket science, most times it's the chemistry (emotional/physical) that's off.
Actually, my ex was overally nice to me before we got married. Afterwards, he'd complain about little things like picking me up from work which was only 10 minutes to our house. He tried to get me to ride the bus late at night.
As for his limp noddle, that was caused by medications he took. It had nothing to do with chemistry.
AnjelLuvsUBabe said:@tinkat, I love your ending line thats apart of every post, I assume you post from a phone.. Lol