Yeah, your right they do snap them into submission.
I live in NYC where the Dominican salons are plentyfull. Before joining the forum I would go every so often and let them do my hair and even then I wouldn't let them blow my hair out that often. I have to tell you from what I know now all they are doing is frying up our hair, with those hot A!@ blow dryers. Yeah when I did get it fully blown, or just the roots blown my hair would be bangin straight when I left and would last a good while, but now I say all that was at what cost....you feel me
. My daughter is 16 and loves to get her hair blown out, and she has gone from healthy hair when I cared for it to hair that breaks from just looking at a comb
, but she doesn't listen....I tell her all the time just go and get a wash and set but don't let them blow your hair, but no.....she says she doesn't like the look of just wrapped hair.
IMO the blow outs are good for unprocessed hair, when your relaxed your hair is just too fragile to handle all that heat, and I'm telling you it's way toooooo much heat that is being put on the hair,
sometimes the shops are very smoky (literally) from the heat that is being given off by the blow dryers.
My girlfriend goes religiously and let them blow and relax her hair. She has a very nice length, she at BSL if not it's near there but her hair is very thin, from all the stretching of the hair with those round brushed and their techniques with relaxers is a whole other story. I think the the blowouts maybe good to do once in a blue maybe a special occasion or so but not constantly.
I know that doesn't help tell you how to do it, but just wanted to drop in my 2 cents
on the subject.