Farida
Well-Known Member
This is not a just small flaw she was blinded to. If he really is as nasty as she says then he has always been that way. Unless he hired a cleaning lady 24/7 when they were dating.
Withholding sex and cooking for something you knew and accepted going into this is like a child throwing a tantrum.
This may be habit or worse character on his part. They should try to work through it because a good spouse should put some effort into making his wife happy.
He can try and learn to be a bit more considerate at least in shared areas. If not, if they can afford to the cleaning lady is a must. In every relationship you learn some things are not worth fighting about. Especially if you knew about this beforehand. Sounds like he at least keeps good personal hygiene/appearance so not all is lost.
Withholding sex and cooking for something you knew and accepted going into this is like a child throwing a tantrum.
This may be habit or worse character on his part. They should try to work through it because a good spouse should put some effort into making his wife happy.
He can try and learn to be a bit more considerate at least in shared areas. If not, if they can afford to the cleaning lady is a must. In every relationship you learn some things are not worth fighting about. Especially if you knew about this beforehand. Sounds like he at least keeps good personal hygiene/appearance so not all is lost.