kurlybella
Well-Known Member
In response to the op, yeah, if someone comes to a conclusion that is against the Bible, that is wrong.
People say "God told me x, y, and z" all the time. And what they mean most of the time is "I really feel x, y, or z." We think if it's something we feel really strongly about then God must be behind us. That's not so.
Rape is physical violence and we are in no way required to stay in abusive situations. Remarriage is an entirely different question, however.
remarriage is not allowed unless widowed or abandoned. that's clear cut in the bible. i'm talking actual verses, not manmade interpretations.
of course we should not stay in a violent relationship, however, there is no verse that says we can DIVORCE for this reason, which is the point of my thread.
so the question still stands, if you do something deamed a sin in the bible, in this case divorcing your rapist husband, is it still wrong? or did jesus want to you stay with him - jesus himself said that adultry - meaning sleeping with someone else -- no matter how much a new defintion we try to give to it now - is the ONLY ground for divorce (less abandonment which is mentioned in corinthians).
i find that people rationalize this in many different ways, so i wanted to have a discussion about this.