Whoa.
Hope you believe what he said 'cause he meant it.
Don't make excuses for him, you'll only hate yourself later.
Good luck to you and your kids.
You are beautiful, don't waste that on him... .
After SEVEN years? I just told you to leave for 14 days but I'm now thinking you should go ahead and KIM permanently. Read the book, "He's Just Not that Into You". Don't waste another moment of your pretty on this man!
I just don't think now is the time to bring up marriage,let say you back him into a corner and get married.I know I would always believe he thought I was second rate.
Men can be so flip with their comments but please believe they know what their saying.It's funny how the other guys were defending black women but the one with a good black woman wants someone else.
All I got to say is women have more power than they allow themselves, i.e. rationalizing actions and behavior.
I don't see dudes rationalizing a blaggone thing about a woman. If one titty sag lower than the other they will leave you and folks won't say squat to them about it. But women, ah, as long as he (xyz, bare minimum...fill in blank) girlll you better keep that man.
Has he always had the upper hand in this relationship?
He is very cavalier about your emotions. He thinks it's funny that your feelings are hurt? That you're just being silly?
He seems like a psychopath. A Scott Peterson type. Lacy was good for a while, then he met that other chick, Lacy had to go deep sea diving without a tank.
The NERVE to lay up with you all this time, and have a secret escape plan. And what if hedoesn't meet/can't pull that Latina girl? Then he'll settle for you. He is a snake.
You deserve better and you can get better.
Don't waste the pretty.