Is my SO faking his illness? Need advice!

[Theo]

It sounds like he's manipulating you.

 

[DragonPearl]

Smdh, I think he's lying so you can feel sorry for him. My ex does the same thing. He grabs his chest and says he has pains and complains of migraines from stress.

I cut contact with him and he said it put him in the hospital, and he was showing me the papers and his little wristband. Now he tries to use that as a way to make me answer his calls saying "You can't do this to me. You know I worry about you and I have a high blood pressure".

I told him he can't expect me to care when he still smokes cigarettes everyday, showing that he doesn't care about his health.

Men will try anything, lol.

They sure will. I once dated a guy who told me his mom was dying of cancer when I tried to break up with him. I had been trying to break up with him on a couple of occasions, and he always got instantly sick so I usually felt bad and delayed the breakup. Thinking his mom was dying, I ended up staying with him 3 more months, until I finally realized that his mom was fine thank you very much.

 

[GV-NA-GI-TLV-GE-I]

I feel in my heart that he is ok and is just craving for my attention. One time when I threaten to leave the relationship, he started hyperventilating (sp?). I can't deal with this punkish behavior! Everytime we argue and have a disagreement, before we can resolve the issue, he will get sick.

Chica, it's called 'manipulacion!'

 

[GV-NA-GI-TLV-GE-I]

They sure will. I once dated a guy who told me his mom was dying of cancer when I tried to break up with him. I had been trying to break up with him on a couple of occasions, and he always got instantly sick so I usually felt bad and delayed the breakup. Thinking his mom was dying, I ended up staying with him 3 more months, until I finally realized that his mom was fine thank you very much.

LOL. "Let's let it go." "My mom is dying of cancer." "So, when's the funeral? Gotta go."

 

[SUPER SWEET]

He is manipulating you. If you stay, I'd suggest going with him to a doctor's visit to see his prognosis. High Blood pressure is NOTHING to play with. My brother passes away suddenly last year due to an auortic anyerisum that wasn't diagnosed. So if he feels that sick all the time, the doctor and hospital should be on speed dial.

 

[MissMeWithThatIsh]

Next time he fakes sick, call 911 for him

 

[Halana Malie]

Sounds like you're being manipulated. He may have health problems he may not but since you mentioned him doing this before it leads me to think he is a liar. Do you want to live your life forever questioning whether this man is faking/playing you? Trust, I've been there. It's not worth it.

 

[TG2000]

Next time he fakes sick, call 911 for him

 

[LoveLiLi]

They sure will. I once dated a guy who told me his mom was dying of cancer when I tried to break up with him. I had been trying to break up with him on a couple of occasions, and he always got instantly sick so I usually felt bad and delayed the breakup. Thinking his mom was dying, I ended up staying with him 3 more months, until I finally realized that his mom was fine thank you very much.

WTH! See, he took it to far . It's one thing to fake like you're sick, but saying mom has cancer... I'd be afraid to even say something like that.

 

[BrooklynSouth]

Women are such caretakers. Grown men can take care of themselves. Please take care of yourself before you develop his problems-he'll be just fine.