littlebit79
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Ok, this is the second time that I have caught my SO other lying about going out. Last year, he went on a partying binge, he went out every weekend for the entire summer. I love to party too, but damn! I felt that was bit much when you're in a relationship and I told him he needed to slow down. We talked about it, and it seemed to calm down. Well I guess this summer he just decided he would lie about it. The first time, he lied and said he just hung out at home but when I was getting dressed I found the receipt for his drinks that my "brilliant" BF left laying on the dresser. I confronted him, he fessed up... we talked about it, and moved on.
Well this past weekend, this dude does it again. He says he was home, but I have a key and have free reign, so I asked him again what he did with a little more bass in my voice, to give the impression that I might know more than I did. He once again confessed that he was lying.
I love this dude, but I absolutely hate liars! One lie makes every truth seem questionable. I have never had any issues with him with infidelity and otherwise he's an open book. But this just doesnt' sit well with me. I am moments from walking away because I just feel like this is going to continue to happen and the lies will become more and more serious. I will admit, I normally run at the first sign of trouble. But this is the first and only issue that we have had. My friend says I'm over reacting and he lied because he thought he could avoid an argument, she says I should make him sweat a while but its not worth walking away from an otherwise good relationship. Am I over reacting?
Well this past weekend, this dude does it again. He says he was home, but I have a key and have free reign, so I asked him again what he did with a little more bass in my voice, to give the impression that I might know more than I did. He once again confessed that he was lying.
I love this dude, but I absolutely hate liars! One lie makes every truth seem questionable. I have never had any issues with him with infidelity and otherwise he's an open book. But this just doesnt' sit well with me. I am moments from walking away because I just feel like this is going to continue to happen and the lies will become more and more serious. I will admit, I normally run at the first sign of trouble. But this is the first and only issue that we have had. My friend says I'm over reacting and he lied because he thought he could avoid an argument, she says I should make him sweat a while but its not worth walking away from an otherwise good relationship. Am I over reacting?