Ok Im going to answer all posts in one. Between me and him, we do have energy BUT Im NOT trying to do anything beyond that. We just are really good friends and we can talk for hours easily. She's a pretty girl so I don't see why she would feel insecure or even jelly about it, I mean he's her boyfriend. And he did tell her that he would continue speaking to me but I say that he's sneaking because he will only talk to me when she's not around. At one point we were intimate but that was years ago. I've already had him in every which way I wanted him BEFORE her and nothing has happened since. I don't even like shaking his hand now. Personally, like I said earlier I think its ridiculous to ban someone from speaking to someone else. I've never done it before but I know I'm probably different from alot of other females. I would also like to add that he has ALOT of female friends, his bestfriend is a female, and she doesn't like them also LOL. But they and I were here before she was. I think the fact that she tries to so call ban him is making him want to speak to others even more. But the way I see it is if you can't trust someone and you have to spend time worrying about where they at, who they with, and who they talking to you shouldn't be with them.
Right now I'm not really speaking to him because of this situation but I just want my friend back.