Ok gals... it's been awhile but for the most part I have recuperated from the CF situation. I'm not particularly into dating right now, though. Not because I don't want to but because I'm not interested in it going anywhere. I'm content to be alone right now, especially since I have so much other crap I want to/need to focus on right now. However, I do have news...
so I got invited for dinner at Chris's - the guy from the bar night with all the walking. We've hung out a couple times already. At first I probably wasn't going to go, depending on how bored I felt, but I got into a fight with my mom (the abode where I will be resting for the summer until I find a gig) and wanted to get out of the house. Plus I didn't want to be home alone like a loser on the holiday weekend. So I decided to go.
So I get there around six, and I haven't eaten since an omelet for breakfast. I was invited under pretense of a homecooked meal (Chris is Italian) but he had ZERO food. We had a quick drink while watching Intervention ("It's like I'm walking on sunshine!"
) first. Luckily he lives literally right next door to a little Greek cafe, so we went and ate out on the restaurant's patio. After that, we hung out for awhile, watching tv, chatting, having more drinks. He plays in a band so I made him play the bass guitar some (but he was drunk and it sounded like crap). He played me some of his recorded music on itunes, then I switched to
live music.
So we're still chilling out and having a good time and at this point his roommate (or sublet) comes home. He'd told me he had a girl roommate but I was curious what she looked like. She looked like... Dolores Umbridge. Her being home kind of ruined the mood, so I was glad when my friend Emily texted me. We've been trying to set up a club date FOREVER, and plus we hadn't hung out since graduation, so when she mentioned getting a drink, I offered to meet her halfway and we'd figure it out then. So we left to meet Emily.
It was a couple blocks' walk. We went to Walgreens for more juice, then the three of us went back to his place. We hung out for awhile, being hilarious, (Emily making a contact for a job in DC), discussing appropriate clubs for someone with day-glo skin who wants to meet a black dude. Chris goes to the bathroom to pee for like the millionth time, and the second he leaves the room, Emily looks at me excitedly with big eyes and mouths, "I like this guy!" I grinned back because it's nice to have approval that you aren't secretly hanging out with a huge loser.
When Emily left at some point in the night Chris asked me to be his girlfriend. In fact, he asked a couple times and a few more as confirmation. I asked what I would have to do, and told him I didn't know how to be anyone's girlfriend. He said he had ****ty self esteem and didn't think someone like me would be interested in dating him. I was like, omg. I'm not entirely sure where we landed on that or if there was ever an actual consensus reached.
Day 2. I picked up lunch around 12, then we slept til bout four. I asked if he wanted to go out and do something today so he called some friends and we left to meet them. On the way we decided to stop for a cold drink but it turned out those two friends were walking right in front of us. Apparently they had been dating for like 3 years and are practically engaged. She was a beautiful biracial chick with a 4a fro and he was a good looking, laid back Indian dude. They made a much more attractive pair than we did, way more ~~~exotical~~~~ too
(she also appeared to subscribe to the pheromones school of thought because she had noticeable BO yet strangely it was not offensive
)
Anyway, so we stopped for drinks and went back to their place, joined by a fifth roommate. They smoked, I drank, then we started wanting burgers. It was a good time. We went to a nearby restaurant and had a fcking delicious meal (I had corned beef, which was cooked like a patty melt
) after which we decided to part ways because Chris had to work in the morning. We sort of fell asleep early but he eventually went and slept on the couch because I make a bad bed partner, lol.
So, I haven't organized my thoughts on this one yet... but I know Emily wants to go to the club and meet hot guys so...