So a couple weeks ago, it was my friend Jeremy's birthday. As usual we headed to the bar to celebrate. At this point, I had a crush on this other guy, and I was excited to see him there. Until I quickly realized... he'd brought a date! D'oh!
Now what am I supposed to do all night?
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So I nursed my drink and had casual, friendly conversation with other friends there, wondering how much longer I'd hang around until I got bored enough to call the shuttle. At this point, Jeremy and a third guy (who is gay) and I are hanging around talking. Jeremy is an international student from Korea and he speaks somewhat broken English. He kind of talks like he doesn't have any teeth. So my subdued mood is somewhat lifting by now because they're both cracking me up so much.
Before the party, there was a conversation on facebook about the gay guy giving Jeremy a birthday kiss. So we started pressuring them to kiss (I took a picture of this) and afterward, Jeremy wanted to lean over the table to kiss me, so I let him. He totally slipped me the tongue. After that for the rest of the night, Jeremy jokingly but not really asked if we'd be going home together. I knew he wasn't really kidding because at one point he was kind of standing leaning against my leg as I sat and I could tell he had an erection. But after I saw the guy I had a crush on leave with his date, I threw in the towel and went home.
After that, Jeremy and I started to talk online. We'd talk more or less everyday but he seemed primarily interested in only discussing school. If I tried to change the subject to ANYTHING else, any other interest, he'd give monosyllabic responses or say that he didn't know. But he could talk for a half hour about the public health program at the University of Minnesota. Not wanting to dismiss him for these shallow reasons, I invited him to the bar one night. It was kind of fun, kind of awkward, we shared a plate of fries (omg so good) and he'd walked me back home.
Now I mention all this to say, remember the night that I met Farrell we were standing at the bar at last call? While we stood there, Jeremy also stood, obstinately and blocking the way, like he couldn't believe/disapproved of/or intended to stop us from leaving
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We hadn't talked much that night (because before I met Farrell I spent the whole night flirting with a different guy) and now he was standing there like he couldn't believe I was going to leave not-alone.
The next day, he'd changed his profile pic on facebook and when I went to go look at it, I noticed I couldn't - he'd put me on his limited profile
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. I instant messaged him, and he didn't respond. I tagged him to a status and he ignored me and untagged it. I haven't seen him at school again yet, but I'm wondering if I lost myself a friend here....
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