futurelonglocks
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I agree! What in the h3ll!? These mothers are a trip!
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I agree! What in the h3ll!? These mothers are a trip!
My daughter would sleep and be still all day. The minute I laid my tired lower back self down to sleep( for some reason she sat on my tail bone..pure hell) She would just go to kicking and moving and you could see my stomach poke up where she would move. I stayed tired carrying that lil girl..she is something special!23 weeks in. Feeling huge. Cannot wait until June. Most days I just feel weird now, don't even know how to explain the feeling lol. But she kicks a lot now and I love it
LeftRightRepeat
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i just had an absolutely exhausting conversation with Dh. I was telling him about a work problem and he's getting upset because according to him i have every excuse in the book as to why I'm not following his advice 
Leeda.the.Paladin
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I’m happy to be done with being pregnant but I miss feeling them moving! Something I’ll always treasure.
PrissiSippi
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Oooh man I remember this with dS. He would ball up real tight and then act like he was punching his way out of my body. I was soooo tired when I woke up in the mornings.
Brwnbeauti
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So a special shout out to my mom. She said an aunt was talking about how it’s about time for us to have a baby. She told her it’s about time her daughter found a husband. She said she told her that maybe we have other things we want to do first.
hopeful
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Your mom rocks! I love it. She let the aunt know that she needs to stay in her lane and mind her (and her own daughter’s) business.
PrissiSippi
Simply Komplex
I called DH parents to check up on DS. DH answered the phoneinstead. I asked how was our son. He said he’s fine I don’t why you’re calling. (To Check up on my son duh. If I didn’t call you would say I don’t even care about him and never call too. And why did u have to add that in there)I ask to speak to DS in the phone he paused and said he’s playing he doesn’t want to talk on the phone right now. I know it’s small but DS is one. We tell a one year old what they’re going to do. He has no choices. Plus he didn’t even try. He could have let me talk to Him for 30 seconds. I never deny him of talking to DS. I usually would scream and curse at him out of anger. Then he would talk quietly and say....you scare me. You’re so abusive. You holler at me for no reason.
I said oh okay honey well I was just calling goodbye. I hung up but I swear I saw blood for a few hours. I could have punched him. I’m sooo tired of the passive aggressive bs.
His niece FaceTimed me today. DS smiled so big when he saw me. He just warmed my heart. I miss my little guy.
I said oh okay honey well I was just calling goodbye. I hung up but I swear I saw blood for a few hours. I could have punched him. I’m sooo tired of the passive aggressive bs.
His niece FaceTimed me today. DS smiled so big when he saw me. He just warmed my heart. I miss my little guy.
natural in ATL
15+ years natural
I’m so sorry you’re going through this. Nobody’s keeping me from talking to my son. You’re good for being able to let that go.I called DH parents to check up on DS. DH answered the phoneinstead. I asked how was our son. He said he’s fine I don’t why you’re calling. (To Check up on my son duh. If I didn’t call you would say I don’t even care about him and never call too. And why did u have to add that in there)I ask to speak to DS in the phone he paused and said he’s playing he doesn’t want to talk on the phone right now. I know it’s small but DS is one. We tell a one year old what they’re going to do. He has no choices. Plus he didn’t even try. He could have let me talk to Him for 30 seconds. I never deny him of talking to DS. I usually would scream and curse at him out of anger. Then he would talk quietly and say....you scare me. You’re so abusive. You holler at me for no reason.
I said oh okay honey well I was just calling goodbye. I hung up but I swear I saw blood for a few hours. I could have punched him. I’m sooo tired of the passive aggressive bs.
His niece FaceTimed me today. DS smiled so big when he saw me. He just warmed my heart. I miss my little guy.
Miss617
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@PrissiSippi Girl, you are way better than me because we'd be fighting.
jerseyhaircare
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I called DH parents to check up on DS. DH answered the phoneinstead. I asked how was our son. He said he’s fine I don’t why you’re calling. (To Check up on my son duh. If I didn’t call you would say I don’t even care about him and never call too. And why did u have to add that in there)I ask to speak to DS in the phone he paused and said he’s playing he doesn’t want to talk on the phone right now. I know it’s small but DS is one. We tell a one year old what they’re going to do. He has no choices. Plus he didn’t even try. He could have let me talk to Him for 30 seconds. I never deny him of talking to DS. I usually would scream and curse at him out of anger. Then he would talk quietly and say....you scare me. You’re so abusive. You holler at me for no reason.
I said oh okay honey well I was just calling goodbye. I hung up but I swear I saw blood for a few hours. I could have punched him. I’m sooo tired of the passive aggressive bs.
His niece FaceTimed me today. DS smiled so big when he saw me. He just warmed my heart. I miss my little guy.
You did the right thing by staying calm. He is trying to trigger you in hopes of painting you as the dangerous, unstable parent. Be careful around him and be strategic during all your interactions.
Brwnbeauti
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She got her together real quick
. I told dh. He was pleased.*I am the only married granddaughter... she stay checking her sisters. She’s the reason I’m petty
PrissiSippi
Simply Komplex
Yup. I handled that with poise but I still feels like he havs to punish me for something I don’t know of.
So now instead of calling and telling me what time he was bringing DS back he tried to just pop up at my house. He sent me a text talking about I’m sorry I forgot to text u and tell u I’m on the way. I’m in your area now. (He stays an hour away. You were on fbook and drove an hour but can’t rememver to call or text). Well it was not our usual time and I was out of pocket so I made the boundary and told him I was out and did not rush home. I told him how long it would take for me to be home. I didn’t say it but I was trying to set the tone you are not allowed to just pop up anymore. That’s a husband privledge.
He will not worry me this year with all these riddles and games.
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melahnee
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She has been recently sitting on what I think is my tailbone too and also my ribs. Luckily, cold water always does the trick and she moves and I feel better. I'm really getting big over here. I can now stare and see the kicks through the belly. 11 weeks or so until full term. Went by pretty fast.
curlykimmy
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Yall married ladies doing ok? It done got quiet in here (says a long time lurker, lol). Hubby and I just celebrated 21 years of marriage. It hasn't been perfect, but it's been good and I'd do it all over again. Thank you ladies for keeping it real in here. Yall have helped me many days without even knowing it 
jerseyhaircare
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Doing good. 6 years in July. Must say, marriage seems to get easier as the years pass-more harmony and better communication, so can't complain.
LivingInPeace
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I’ve been married 15 years. I feel like I don’t have anything to talk about in here. Life is pretty much the same everyday. No drama. Just basic day to day life. I don’t have any unicorn tales like I see in other relationship threads. We’re just regular married folks. I love him. He loves me. We treat each other well. We both work. Regular people jobs. We both pay bills. He’s cooking dinner right now. I’m waiting to be served.Yall married ladies doing ok? It done got quiet in here (says a long time lurker, lol). Hubby and I just celebrated 21 years of marriage. It hasn't been perfect, but it's been good and I'd do it all over again. Thank you ladies for keeping it real in here. Yall have helped me many days without even knowing it
Just a normal existence. Thank you Lord!
hopeful
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I’ve been married 15 years. I feel like I don’t have anything to talk about in here. Life is pretty much the same everyday. No drama. Just basic day to day life. I don’t have any unicorn tales like I see in other relationship threads. We’re just regular married folks. I love him. He loves me. We treat each other well. We both work. Regular people jobs. We both pay bills. He’s cooking dinner right now. I’m waiting to be served.
I’ve come to the conclusion that the life you describe is where it’s at. He sounds like your partner. Not your daddy. Not your son. Not your adversary. Not some knight in shining armor. But a real, normal man who loves you and his family. I’m happy for you. We need to hear more stories like yours. Where there is peace, calm, respect, support, and consistency.
Loving
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Congrats @curlykimmy !21 years is quite an achievement. DH and I are doing well. Certain things that used to bother me earlier in our marriage, I shrug off now. I find it helps me to live a more stress free life.
I’ve been married 15 years. I feel like I don’t have anything to talk about in here. Life is pretty much the same everyday. No drama. Just basic day to day life. I don’t have any unicorn tales like I see in other relationship threads. We’re just regular married folks. I love him. He loves me. We treat each other well. We both work. Regular people jobs. We both pay bills. He’s cooking dinner right now. I’m waiting to be served.
Same here. We've had some bumps in the road, but right now we're just coasting. These days all we argue about is food. Like how he threw my tiramisu away before I was done eating it (he was cleaning out the fridge).
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sunnieb
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I’ve been married 15 years. I feel like I don’t have anything to talk about in here. Life is pretty much the same everyday. No drama. Just basic day to day life. I don’t have any unicorn tales like I see in other relationship threads. We’re just regular married folks. I love him. He loves me. We treat each other well. We both work. Regular people jobs. We both pay bills. He’s cooking dinner right now. I’m waiting to be served.
That's pretty much it.
I'm another regular degular married checking in. We just passed 24 years and coasting. Can't remember what our last argument was about.
Now us in our 20's? Humph! I just remember wanting to pop him in the throat most days.
curlykimmy
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I’ve been married 15 years. I feel like I don’t have anything to talk about in here. Life is pretty much the same everyday. No drama. Just basic day to day life. I don’t have any unicorn tales like I see in other relationship threads. We’re just regular married folks. I love him. He loves me. We treat each other well. We both work. Regular people jobs. We both pay bills. He’s cooking dinner right now. I’m waiting to be served.
I love it! Yes, thank you Lord. All of this sounds like us now. So thankful to be in this stage
curlykimmy
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Thank you! And yes, Amen to all of that!
Bad&Bougee
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23 weeks in. Feeling huge. Cannot wait until June. Most days I just feel weird now, don't even know how to explain the feeling lol. But she kicks a lot now and I love it
Hi @melahnee! Feeling their kicks and movement is one of the best feelings in the world.
You and the baby seem to be doing really well. I am ecstatic for you. June will be here before you know it - enjoy this time.
IslandMummy
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Girl, run!I'm going on a Girls trip to Miami next Tuesday and I can't wait to go! I am so ready to go! I'm leaving behind hubby and two children. Is that bad or what? I know I'm not alone!
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