Married Ladies Random Thoughts
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hopeful
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(((Hugs))) Sorry Miss617.
Miss617
Always left of center
Thank you. I don't know if it's even worth mentioning to him. Right now I'm just trying to be supportive because I know he is jumping through a ton of hoops to even get access to his father's information.
hopeful
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Would definitely not mention now. Focus on loving and supporting him. He will need time to grieve. You will have time to discuss this later. In a few months or even a year from now, depending on how hard a time he has with the loss.
Foxglove
A drop of golden sun
He's grieving right now. I would let it go for now and maybe bring it up months later when he is in a better place mentally. He might get defensive if you brought it up now
OriginalBeauty
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The Lion King is too violent but the story of Cain and Abel is a-okay.
#inlawlogic
#inlawlogic
FemmeCreole
Island Gyal
It's our 3 year anniversary today!
Miss617
Always left of center
Happy anniversary @FemmeCreole! Any big plans??
FemmeCreole
Island Gyal
No big plans. We're both exhausted with work unfortunately.
Miss617
Always left of center
Aw, I'm sorry to hear that. I hope you're at least able to do dinner or something, even if it's just at home.
FemmeCreole
Island Gyal
We'll do something on the weekend
Taleah2009
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I really really really dislike this man at the moment. I swear sometimes he just pushes my limits to see how I will react and how much he can get it away with. Nope not feeding into.
Taleah2009
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My marriage was 90-95% smooth sailing the first 6 months. Now that we hit the 6 month mark, all hell is breaking loose. What the heck is up with that. I am starting to see why people divorce in the first year.
Hang on in there and ride it through. Then see what happens. This was the same for me.
Brwnbeauti
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Growing pains
LucieLoo12
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DH is going away on his annual men's retreat with our church next week. 
Sike. 
I having mixed feelings about him leaving. The first year he went on this trip it was a couple of months after we got married and I cried like a baby 
. But this year I am like 
. I love my hubby and I will miss him but I am ready for my little break from wifely duties. But I will be staying with my mom because I can't do 4 nights in that house alone. Wack huh? 
I am a scary 
yes I am. I just always hear things in the other rooms when DH is not there and I can't ever get good sleep because I always think someone is in the house. I am so glad we did not get the 2 story house I first wanted, I do know what I would do. 
So I will be with my mom and she is excited because we get to spend some time together and asked me what meals I want her to cook for me 
. He will be missed but his time away will be enjoyed.
Sike. I having mixed feelings about him leaving. The first year he went on this trip it was a couple of months after we got married and I cried like a baby . But this year I am like . I love my hubby and I will miss him but I am ready for my little break from wifely duties. But I will be staying with my mom because I can't do 4 nights in that house alone. Wack huh? I am a scary yes I am. I just always hear things in the other rooms when DH is not there and I can't ever get good sleep because I always think someone is in the house. I am so glad we did not get the 2 story house I first wanted, I do know what I would do. So I will be with my mom and she is excited because we get to spend some time together and asked me what meals I want her to cook for me . He will be missed but his time away will be enjoyed.Taleah2009
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Thanks! I am hoping that that's all it is. I am sitting here ready to look up how to get a divorce.
Brwnbeauti
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Me too! Its still early. Give it a little time
Taleah2009
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Thanks! We are going to meet for dinner tonight and I plan to pray in the mean time for the right words to express my feelings.
GodsPromises
The Credit Countess
I just wanna say I's Married Now
#thatsall
#thatsall
locabouthair
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Congrats!!!
PrissiSippi
Simply Komplex
Same for me. Months 6-12 were kinda rough. It's month 13 now...
seems like we're back to smooth sailing. 
Well somewhat if I just don't bring up anything fertility related and stay focused on doing me and not nitpicking on what he's not doing. OT: But this marriage is really making me grow in ways that I already thought I was "there".
Brwnbeauti
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Dh said he'll be glad after I go to this concert.
I'm beyond annoyed. My original partner flaked. And after he figured out he'd have to go or I'd go alone he offered to take care of everything if I found someone to go with me. Then the other girl had a family emergency. And the last minute ask has to make a turn around trip- which isn't too bad but dam I had plans. I was gonna book my room, chill, walk to the venue, rock out- get hoarse, come back hit an after party, wake up and do a cute lunch. Instead we'll be riding there and returning I'm kinda pissed...
I'm beyond annoyed. My original partner flaked. And after he figured out he'd have to go or I'd go alone he offered to take care of everything if I found someone to go with me. Then the other girl had a family emergency. And the last minute ask has to make a turn around trip- which isn't too bad but dam I had plans. I was gonna book my room, chill, walk to the venue, rock out- get hoarse, come back hit an after party, wake up and do a cute lunch. Instead we'll be riding there and returning I'm kinda pissed...
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Dee-Licious
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Brwnbeauti
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He doesn't want to go, and he has midterms so he has the perfect excuse.
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