Married Ladies Random Thoughts

LeftRightRepeat said:
LOL. sometimes that happens with us too. He'll do silent treatment and then start talking to me when it's clear that I can hold out longer than he can. He doesn't really know how stubborn Aries women can be :lol:

If it was a petty argument I'll let it go. If not, then I *will* bring it up again

eta : but that's all in the past of course - I'm a changed woman :look: :lol:
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Aries power all day long! LOL! I have to bring it up again because he would like to move past it and nothing get resolved. So we have to talk about the issue that caused the silence in the beginning. He would just rather act as if that part never happened...NOPE!
 
I guess my expectations are too high. I just hate it when I come home from work on a day that dh has been off with our 2 year old dd and the house is in chaos. There's a pile of dishes in the sink, crumbs everywhere, dirty pots on the stove, toys, clothes and hair bows everywhere. It just instantly sends me into a bad mood. I guess I should be use to it by now because no matter what I do, its still the same result when I get home! I get so frustrated that I fuss under my breath. I know I shouldn't do that, but it just makes me want to explode! :angry2:
I need to understand that dh just isn't going to keep the house clean up to my standards. He tries....I mean he had washed the dishes from breakfast, but even then the dish rack was over run because he hadn't put the dishes that were in there from last night away! Okay, I guess I'm just nitpicking on that one...but still.....:mwahahafire:

Okay, rant over.
 
I met dh friend 3 years ago. We stayed at his home-they golfed, I shopped. One morning he got up early to drive his friend and her daughter to the airport. Like before 6am. He was married then. When dh told me he and his wife were divorcing a few months later I knew what was up! I met his girlfriend a month or so ago. Guess who she is...
 
CafedeBelleza said:
I met dh friend 3 years ago. We stayed at his home-they golfed, I shopped. One morning he got up early to drive his friend and her daughter to the airport. Like before 6am. He was married then. When dh told me he and his wife were divorcing a few months later I knew what was up! I met his girlfriend a month or so ago. Guess who she is...
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????????
 
CafedeBelleza said:
I met dh friend 3 years ago. We stayed at his home-they golfed, I shopped. One morning he got up early to drive his friend and her daughter to the airport. Like before 6am. He was married then. When dh told me he and his wife were divorcing a few months later I knew what was up! I met his girlfriend a month or so ago. Guess who she is...
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The daughter! Ick! How young is she?
 
His friend?! At first I was thinking the daughter because I thought the friend was a guy until I read it again. But then again, that isn't even shocking these days.
 
CafedeBelleza said:
I met dh friend 3 years ago. We stayed at his home-they golfed, I shopped. One morning he got up early to drive his friend and her daughter to the airport. Like before 6am. He was married then. When dh told me he and his wife were divorcing a few months later I knew what was up! I met his girlfriend a month or so ago. Guess who she is...
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The friend he went to take to the airport????? oh hell no
 
HappywithJC723 said:
I guess my expectations are too high. I just hate it when I come home from work on a day that dh has been off with our 2 year old dd and the house is in chaos. There's a pile of dishes in the sink, crumbs everywhere, dirty pots on the stove, toys, clothes and hair bows everywhere. It just instantly sends me into a bad mood. I guess I should be use to it by now because no matter what I do, its still the same result when I get home! I get so frustrated that I fuss under my breath. I know I shouldn't do that, but it just makes me want to explode! :angry2:
I need to understand that dh just isn't going to keep the house clean up to my standards. He tries....I mean he had washed the dishes from breakfast, but even then the dish rack was over run because he hadn't put the dishes that were in there from last night away! Okay, I guess I'm just nitpicking on that one...but still.....:mwahahafire:

Okay, rant over.
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:amen:
I was just talking to my best friend about this. She told me my expectations are high because she has never seen a man keep a house spotless even when it's his day off and he has ample time. Lol. It's just common sense to me. But I guess I have to realize he has an XY chromosome and a penis and stuff lol. :spinning:
 
Me and DH 2 year anniversary is on the 1st. I need some ideas for a nice night. We are taking our big vacation trip in about 5 weeks but I want to do something small but special for him for our anniversary. I was thinking about getting a room?Dinner? I guess I want to do something creative. Scavenger hunt? Any ideas??
 
So.

The husband got a bit... overzealous yesterday and gave me a hickey. He "says" he was trying to be careful but he's like oh, it's barely noticeable, should be fine. This morning I'm like nah, still noticeable, I'll just keep my scarf on at work. So like an hour ago it's kind of making my neck itch, so I took it off; I haven't seen anyone face to face today, so I figured I should be good til I leave. Why as soon as I get off of a call does my... hmm, interim manager come over to my desk?! Either she really didn't see it or she played it off very well but it wasn't until after she had already left that I was like "sh*t! The hickey!" :wallbash: I'm so embarrassed.
 
LucieLoo12 said:
Me and DH 2 year anniversary is on the 1st. I need some ideas for a nice night. We are taking our big vacation trip in about 5 weeks but I want to do something small but special for him for our anniversary. I was thinking about getting a room?Dinner? I guess I want to do something creative. Scavenger hunt? Any ideas??
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I'm thinking of doing a scavenger hunt. Our anniversary is on a Monday. I was thinking first having a note in his truck telling him go to his moms for lunch. Then a note and Lunch on me (gift card) at his moms house. Then maybe a note at his job telling him his next clue is at a clothing store. At the clothing store I would have bought him a shirt/outfit and he'll just pick it up. Then the next clue would say meet me at some nice restaurant at 6. Then of course I'd be there looking flawless. We'd do dinner and then go somewhere different to spent some quality time and voila.

We're going on an anniversary trip at the end of the month too but I want to do something special for our anniversary.
 
Qtee said:
Married 6 months on the 16th.. N let me say some days I fight against the urge to throw in the towel.. But thankfully our good days outweigh our bad days.. N I love him even on the days that I don't like him..
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Same here. I mean I know at the 5 month mark I was like bruh I just want to quit fareal fareal I must have done something wrong.

I had a paradigm shift though and even though it's easy for me to shift back into pettiness...I'm fighting that. That's making a big difference in my life. It'll be a year on the 7th! #FistPump
 
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