SvelteVelvet
Well-Known Member
How do you respond? Do you respond? Do you take him seriously? Do you brush it off?
I'm just looking for relatable experiences, outcomes, etc. from relationships/marriages that started out this way..
Ok....so I'm seeing this guy, we have an extraordinary chemistry, one I've never really felt before for anyone. It's one of those magnetic things that the other person feels too and when you lock eyes you know it and when you touch and kiss, it feels like it'll hurt if you stop. I've spent time with him twice so far in the last 6 days and they were both like 12 hour -18 hour 'dates' from us just not wanting to leave each other until we HAD to.
Well both times he's 'talked' marriage, the last time he just asked 'would you marry me?' it sounded like was more of a philosophical question but I didn't know how to respond, so basically I didn't. I haven't really entertained his other comments either, just kinda brushed it off. Well yesterday we were talking on the phone and he was telling me more things about his life, the things he's been through and why he's looking for a long term relationship and it all made sense to me. So now I'm thinking maybe he's just one of those 'ready' ones from a topic we discussed before.
I know we aren't "in love", we're in very strong like with each other, so I'm going to handle that subject with kid gloves for now, but I'd like input on any experiences like this.
I'm just looking for relatable experiences, outcomes, etc. from relationships/marriages that started out this way..
Ok....so I'm seeing this guy, we have an extraordinary chemistry, one I've never really felt before for anyone. It's one of those magnetic things that the other person feels too and when you lock eyes you know it and when you touch and kiss, it feels like it'll hurt if you stop. I've spent time with him twice so far in the last 6 days and they were both like 12 hour -18 hour 'dates' from us just not wanting to leave each other until we HAD to.
Well both times he's 'talked' marriage, the last time he just asked 'would you marry me?' it sounded like was more of a philosophical question but I didn't know how to respond, so basically I didn't. I haven't really entertained his other comments either, just kinda brushed it off. Well yesterday we were talking on the phone and he was telling me more things about his life, the things he's been through and why he's looking for a long term relationship and it all made sense to me. So now I'm thinking maybe he's just one of those 'ready' ones from a topic we discussed before.
I know we aren't "in love", we're in very strong like with each other, so I'm going to handle that subject with kid gloves for now, but I'd like input on any experiences like this.