summerof1990
Well-Known Member
Need your opinions.
Should a woman bring out the discussion of getting married to her man?
if she wants to get married. I don't think so.
If they are on the same page why would she talk about marriage. Most women want to get married when she reaches a certain point in life.
You should know just by being with a man if a man would spend the rest of his life with you or he's just there for the moment VICE VERSA. If you're not so sure about a man intentions about life it's other ways on going about it than putting marriage of the table.
To me that's a mans job to bring up marriage and take initiative. IF he wants to bring up marriage thats fine but if he's a smart man he should surprise her and THEN talk to her about it.
We all have our own opinions but I won't be taking any initiative in marriage and if I feel he's not serious about a relationship I will leave. You just KNOW theres not discussion for ME.
I asked all of my girls that were married they said they never discussed marriage and it was a big surprise and thats beautiful.
Should a woman bring out the discussion of getting married to her man?
if she wants to get married. I don't think so.
If they are on the same page why would she talk about marriage. Most women want to get married when she reaches a certain point in life.
You should know just by being with a man if a man would spend the rest of his life with you or he's just there for the moment VICE VERSA. If you're not so sure about a man intentions about life it's other ways on going about it than putting marriage of the table.
To me that's a mans job to bring up marriage and take initiative. IF he wants to bring up marriage thats fine but if he's a smart man he should surprise her and THEN talk to her about it.
We all have our own opinions but I won't be taking any initiative in marriage and if I feel he's not serious about a relationship I will leave. You just KNOW theres not discussion for ME.
I asked all of my girls that were married they said they never discussed marriage and it was a big surprise and thats beautiful.
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