LOVE OR MONEY. WHAT WOULD YOU DO?

[ThatJerseyGirl]

A friend of mines presented me with a question via e-mail and wanted to know if I would marry for love or money. I told her I had to think about this and get back to her.

So, what would you ladies marry for....love or money and why?

 

[awhyley]

Primarily, I would marry for love, but if I could have both then why not?

 

[-Volare]

His money sure as hell would make me love him...even more.

 

[*~*Afrolicious*~*]

Love of course, but if he had both then I could shop at LV Chanel and Hermes until I drop... that would be awesome

 

[topsyturvy86]

Definitely love. Money is temporary ... if something happens and he gets broke, then what??

 

[GoingBack]

Definitely love. Money is temporary ... if something happens and he gets broke, then what??

I hate to be negative, but love can be just as temporary too.

 

[Ramya]

Both for me.

 

[blue_flower]

I"d marry for LOVE and MONEY. I work too hard and I can't get with someone who doesn't have anything, no matter how much I love him.

 

[UmSumayyah]

I"d marry for LOVE and MONEY. I work too hard and I can't get with someone who doesn't have anything, no matter how much I love him.

If you've got zip,
have no plans to get something,
have no motivation/drive to get something,
don't see the need to have anything,

then I'm going to fall out of love.

Quick.

 

[Ladyhenri]

Love and at minimum, a strong potential to make money.

and where the heck has the thanks button gone? Hisssssssss....Making me type out replies instead of hitting the thanks button and keeping it moving!

 

[GoingNatural]

i would marry for both...but i know love combined with money can get UGLY.

hopefully it's worth it ;-)

 

[ThickHair]

I married the first time because of love. For the second time homeboy should have some money, but I would marry a broke guy I was in love with. I am a romantic at heart. I would not marry soley for money. I am not fake like that. I couldn't even make a business arrangement to marry because that is just not me.

 

[Almaz]

Money. Marriage and life is a business. Money.LOL

 

[Highly Favored8]

I will marry for both.

 

[NaniDiamond]

I married the first time because of love. For the second time homeboy should have some money, but I would marry a broke guy I was in love with. I am a romantic at heart. I would not marry soley for money. I am not fake like that. I couldn't even make a business arrangement to marry because that is just not me.

I respect that you admit that you would marry a broke guy...so would I...BUT, what if he is content w/ is mediocre job and doesn't really have a future plan to progress?

..... for the record, I am not talking about progressing to become stinkin' rich or anything, but just progress and have a game plan so that the both of you guys are not forever struggling so badly?

 

[BrickbyBrick]

Whatchu got against lust??

I say go for the trifecta.. love, lust AND loot. Glorious

 

[Bunny77]

It's a lot easier for me to love a man with some ambition, which usually leads to financial stability.

He doesn't have to be rich, but he needs to be financially stable. So money will play a role in determining who I love, because love is indeed a choice, and then I will marry accordingly.

 

[firecracker]

In my best Snoop Doggy Dog voice "I don't love dem H*@%!" LOL

 

[BroadstreetBully]

Including both isn't fair!

 

[moonglowdiva]

I would have to go with love.

 

[mrsjohnson75]

BOTH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

 

[growth2come]

Definitely love. Money is temporary ... if something happens and he gets broke, then what??

If you marry for money and money goes away then so should you...unless of course you fall for the poor bastard....

 

[LivingDol1]

hahaha. dang if you can have both, take both!!

 

[naturalmanenyc]

I married for love. If this does not work out, the next time will be for money....and lots of it.

 

[Theo]

Lol its not like they're mutually exclusive.

 

[JinaRicci]

Only Love! But the chances of me falling in love with someone who isn't ambitious and driven to succeed are slim to none.

 

[Ms. Vea]

They say money doesnt buy u happiness and they say that money cant buy u love and they also say that love dont pay no bills!!! lol.....i would go for both but i feel if a man is providing for u and doing what a man is supposed to do that the love will come. I am on the fence with this one but as long as i at least like u we can wk from there lol

 

[CurlyMoo]

Either one ends the same.

 

[brandy]

I married for love. If this does not work out, the next time will be for money....and lots of it.

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