Rastafarai
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I guess he liked what he saw/conversed with and wanted her to be his focus. All the best to the lucky lady. I hope it works out.
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I guess he liked what he saw/conversed with and wanted her to be his focus. All the best to the lucky lady. I hope it works out.
Detroit2Dallas
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I guess he liked what he saw/conversed with and wanted her to be his focus. All the best to the lucky lady. I hope it works out.
girl you really are the bomb. i love it. im waitin for a guy to tell me the same thing, some I have guys that I havent listed there pictures but have talked to ladies via pm and hope that something works out for them. Now if only somebody would post a older mature man, in my area I would try to work my own magic on myself LOL! sheesh....always the bridesmaid bwahahahaaa!!!
chocolat79
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My friend ok'd being on here:
Stats:
40 y.o.
5'8"
Has a degree
Ex-military
Very intelligent and pro-black
Currently starting his own photography business
Can cook
Owns house and car
No kids, but would like them one day
From NYC but lives in ATL. We've been friends for a long time and he's a good guy!
Stats:
40 y.o.
5'8"
Has a degree
Ex-military
Very intelligent and pro-black
Currently starting his own photography business
Can cook
Owns house and car
No kids, but would like them one day
From NYC but lives in ATL. We've been friends for a long time and he's a good guy!
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ixoyegodisgood
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chocolat79
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Unfortunately, most of my male friends have recently become boo'ed up, so I don't have hardly any that are still single...but if I run into any, I'll be sure to post more. This is such a great idea Rastafarai!
VelvetRain
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I really love the proactiveness of everyone here which is refreshing to see. Now where are the non-brothers who are looking for sisters? Dying to step outside of the box. I'm in Charlotte.
rabs77
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I guess he liked what he saw/conversed with and wanted her to be his focus. All the best to the lucky lady. I hope it works out.
With a LHCF match? That is so cool!
Rastafarai
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ackee walk
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So, I'm nosey.... did you guys end up knowing each other, and the same guy??
any pending connections??
what's going on in pm land????
yall holdin' out.
lol look at you being all nosey. yes, we ended up knowing the same guy.
man, this thread has really blown up. i can't wait to read a success story on here!
TeeWhyAre
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Ma'am. Ask them to ask their circle. Is their network of friends also taken? I'm reaching out to my networks network. And they are reaching out to their networks network and so on and so forth.
chocolat79
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LOL, I have been! But I'll keep trying....this IS Atlanta. I'm working against the gay population, the playa population, married population, etc., down here. But I have friends in other states, so I'll have to reach out to them!
Ashleescheveux
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Wow, he seems damn near perfect, Ladies get at that quick !
North Carolina ladies:
He's a writer! He's a sweetheart. He attended an HBCU in the RTP (there's only one so figure that out.) mid-20's. He's about 6'3. He's so smart. He's employed. He has published a few articles in the newsobserver. He really is my baby. he has zero kids but he is great with kids and will some day make an excellent father and provider. he's a deep thinker and we can have awesome circular conversations for a while. I love him to pieces. he is very caring. fun loving. he has a ton of friends so i've asked him to reach out to his network. he's christian. he loves to read. he's interested in politics. he knew darn near the whole campus when he was there. one of his favorite movies is the 5 Heartbeat, malcolm x, and the goodfellas. one of his favorite books is coming of age in mississippi. As you can see from the pics he can be both playful and serious and he'll teach your white friends to dance.
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One of the biggest concerns that the men that I am putting out here has is that if someone they know sees it they feel they will get clowned. So I am asking... begging... ladies, if you know any of the men we're posting please don't tease them or make them feel awkward or strange for being open to doing this. That is counterproductive and will only serve to deter more men from participating in this lhcf social experiment.
I think the reason a lot of the ladies are interested in posting or inquiring about one of the men but won't for fear of being dubbed 'thirsty' and it's not 'thirsting' if you truly want to open yourself up to having a good man in your life. If you see someone here that you're interested in please PM the poster. We're all adults for the most part and I pray we act accordingly.
MissYocairis
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MissYocairis
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....interesting....so, the first lady who shows interest gets exclusive access? Is this one of the rules? Just curious....should only one member be able to lock a dude down or should many be able to express an interest? Something to think about :scratchch.
MissYocairis
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Yes, ladies are showing interest as are the eligible bachelors.
According to one bachelor: "You've opened me to meeting women that I've wanted to meet - but haven't - for a while. *smile* I'll pull my single friends together, and I'll let you know what transpires."
To my LHCF sisters: Thanks for representin'. This brother is very much impressed.
LOVE that! You had an EXCELLENT idea Rasta!
Yay you!
Rastafarai
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Not sure for the other ladies but those are not my rules. Anyone who shows interest is free to contact Mr. Bachelor. Some bachelors are asking for brief descriptions before email contacts are exchanged while others are open to exchanging emails (even digits!) for anyone showing interest. It's his rules that I try to abide by.
It's interesting you pointed that out because some ladies have contacted me assuming they are 2nd, 3rd, 4th, etc in line and no longer have a shot at Mr. Bachelor. This is far from the case! Ladies, please know that if you show interest, I will try my best to get you his contact, even if you're the 100th lady to ask for it.
Mr. Bachelor is available until he tells me he is no longer available. Have fun, ladies!!
ackee walk
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i don't think there should be any specific rules on "access." everyone involved is grown. just like any other dating situation, they should be able to figure out what works for them on their own.
if memory serves, i think one of the dudes mentioned in this thread requested that his pic be taken down because he wanted to focus on the woman he was introduced to thru this thread. so that was an individual choice to keep things exclusive there. it's probably best if folks continue to leave it up to individual choice
ackee walk
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Not sure for the other ladies but those are not my rules. Anyone who shows interest is free to contact Mr. Bachelor. Some bachelors are asking for brief descriptions before email contacts are exchanged while others are open to exchanging emails (even digits!) for anyone showing interest. It's his rules that I try to abide by.
It's interesting you pointed that out because some ladies have contacted me assuming they are 2nd, 3rd, 4th, etc in line and no longer have a shot at Mr. Bachelor. This is far from the case! Ladies, please know that if you show interest, I will try my best to get you his contact, even if you're the 100th lady to ask for it.
Mr. Bachelor is available until he tells me he is no longer available. Have fun, ladies!!
our posts crossed. i agree with this POV.
Ms_Delikate
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North Carolina ladies:
He's a writer! He's a sweetheart. He attended an HBCU in the RTP (there's only one so figure that out.) mid-20's. He's about 6'3. He's so smart. He's employed. He has published a few articles in the newsobserver. He really is my baby. he has zero kids but he is great with kids and will some day make an excellent father and provider. he's a deep thinker and we can have awesome circular conversations for a while. I love him to pieces. he is very caring. fun loving. he has a ton of friends so i've asked him to reach out to his network. he's christian. he loves to read. he's interested in politics. he knew darn near the whole campus when he was there. one of his favorite movies is the 5 Heartbeat, malcolm x, and the goodfellas. one of his favorite books is coming of age in mississippi. As you can see from the pics he can be both playful and serious and he'll teach your white friends to dance
===================================================
One of the biggest concerns that the men that I am putting out here has is that if someone they know sees it they feel they will get clowned. So I am asking... begging... ladies, if you know any of the men we're posting please don't tease them or make them feel awkward or strange for being open to doing this. That is counterproductive and will only serve to deter more men from participating in this lhcf social experiment.
I think the reason a lot of the ladies are interested in posting or inquiring about one of the men but won't for fear of being dubbed 'thirsty' and it's not 'thirsting' if you truly want to open yourself up to having a good man in your life. If you see someone here that you're interested in please PM the poster. We're all adults for the most part and I pray we act accordingly.
That man is cute^^^^...thats all..oh yeah and I see nothing "thirsty about being open to meeting fine, eligible, progressive black men
if it works out great if it doesn't...it doesn't
january noir
Sunny On a Cloudy Day
Girl.
This might be the one. You just need to get out there! I know I would if I was young and pretty!
MissYocairis
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this thread! I wanna see a MARRIAGE come of this! (yes, I don't plan on quitting LHCF...so....I'll be here...a couple years from now when the wedding pics come out) 
january noir
Sunny On a Cloudy Day
Too bad he's too young.
Where the 48 and older crowd?
That's who I'm looking for!
Anybody got any "uncles" or "cousins" in my age range, say 50 and older?I'll be 52 next week and open to dating younger. My soon to be ex is 45.
thatscuteright
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No, its open season for anyone that is interested.
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TeeWhyAre
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NO. i pass along the info to as many ladies show interest until he says that he's found someone and hault all others.
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