SimpleKomplexity
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I have this guy. I completely adored him. He's not smart. He's not responsible. He doesn't go to church or have strong Christian values, but he has great conversation and an amazing personality. I think what attracted me to him his the fact that his parents are disabled, and they are his role models because they never let a disability stop them. (Same thing with me.) Anyway, his amazing personality had my guielded from the fact that he doesn't possess any of the characteristics that I love for.
So, I kept hinting that I like him (MISTAKE #1- I should have let him express intrest in ME not that other way around) Well a week after my semi proclamation, he started dating another girl.
A month or two later he broke up with the girl and started spending a lot of time with me. (I really should have made him work hard for my time since he continued to flirt wit me after I told him hwo I felt but then started dating another girl.) I began to start back flirting with him. My guy friend told me I should tell him how I feel directly. I had initially said no, because I told the guy from the beginning that I'm not one who will go up and tell you exactly how I feel unless I am SURE that you feel the same.
Against my initial judgement, I told the boy that I was krazy about him. He replied, "Oh." and the next week he was going with my friend. I feel like he could have gave em an answer or even acknowledged what I said instead of being so blase and trampling my feelings.
This is the elementary ish right here. He told the girl that I am his girlfriend on the side. erplexed And I told him no siree! I guess he expected me to say, "REALLY?!" and b content, but it just seemed like he was just tryna have things his way. Have his cake and eat it too.
The girl moved away. He drove 4 hrs to see her and 4 hrs back. I love 15-29 miles from where he works. I haven't seen him ONCE since the summer let out.
Now he wants me to drive 30 minutes to see him tommorrow. I want to say no because I have summer school, could be doing something else with my life, and I feel that he works 15 minutes away from my house, why can't he drop by and see me after work if he misses me so much. I have to go see him? I think it's just like he's stringing me along like a puppy to see what I'll do.
Is it wrong to not go tommorrow? He lives 30 minutes away. I just feel like this is one of those: He's just not that into things. I wanna be friends with this guy, but not close close friends, and I want to make him understand that I'm not finna chase him like I did before.
So, I kept hinting that I like him (MISTAKE #1- I should have let him express intrest in ME not that other way around) Well a week after my semi proclamation, he started dating another girl.
A month or two later he broke up with the girl and started spending a lot of time with me. (I really should have made him work hard for my time since he continued to flirt wit me after I told him hwo I felt but then started dating another girl.) I began to start back flirting with him. My guy friend told me I should tell him how I feel directly. I had initially said no, because I told the guy from the beginning that I'm not one who will go up and tell you exactly how I feel unless I am SURE that you feel the same.
Against my initial judgement, I told the boy that I was krazy about him. He replied, "Oh." and the next week he was going with my friend. I feel like he could have gave em an answer or even acknowledged what I said instead of being so blase and trampling my feelings.
This is the elementary ish right here. He told the girl that I am his girlfriend on the side. erplexed And I told him no siree! I guess he expected me to say, "REALLY?!" and b content, but it just seemed like he was just tryna have things his way. Have his cake and eat it too.
The girl moved away. He drove 4 hrs to see her and 4 hrs back. I love 15-29 miles from where he works. I haven't seen him ONCE since the summer let out.
Now he wants me to drive 30 minutes to see him tommorrow. I want to say no because I have summer school, could be doing something else with my life, and I feel that he works 15 minutes away from my house, why can't he drop by and see me after work if he misses me so much. I have to go see him? I think it's just like he's stringing me along like a puppy to see what I'll do.
Is it wrong to not go tommorrow? He lives 30 minutes away. I just feel like this is one of those: He's just not that into things. I wanna be friends with this guy, but not close close friends, and I want to make him understand that I'm not finna chase him like I did before.