Not surprising in the least to me-rural area I'm assuming?
But I'm not too keen on him calling you "just a customer" da hayellll? I'd call him out on that
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Soooo...we had to deal with a bit of racism last week. Here goes.
He's a farmer. I went with him to the butcher. He said if anyone he knows had the potential to be racist it should be the butcher. They had also been actively trying to gethim to date their daughter. I intentionally stayed in the truck while he worked. They saw me but he and I said we wouldn't break the news to them so as not to deal with drama (his business falls squarely on the butchers. If the relationship fails, he's up the creek). We head home. He goes back to pick up the meat and the butcher says"yall do things a little differently, dont you". SO asks for clarification. Butcher says he saw a black girl in the front seat of the truck. SO tells him I was a customer. Butcher says "oh. Good. I was worried about you" Whaaaaaatttt?! That comment made me wish I had gone in and introduced myself grrrr
Of course it would make sense. If I had met a black guy that I was interested in maybe that's what would have happened but I didn't.
And, yes, you were being messy. You're purposely trolling and creating strife in a thread where there was none.
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Most women on this forum are married to and date Black just as an fyi...Start a Black love thread and you will get plenty of participants if you dont like this one
I wasnt clear ladies. Im sorry. It was my decision not to tell the butcher. Like I said, he needs them. They were already giving him hell about not dating their daughter. And he and I are still in the beginning of our relationship. Im not bothered Im not convinced I want a long term relationship honestly. He may be leaving the area soon too. Not sure yet
He has never hidden me from anyone. He has never been weird about being affectionate in public. He introduces me as his girlfriend. And he would have no issue with me talking to the butcher. I know that for sure. It was my decision not to tell them. I feel bad now lol. Guess I messed up.
Just now seeing this haha...why so dramatic? Who cares what I think? I would call you pretty messy as well actually. I hope you wouldn't allow yourself to be so offended by what strangers say on a public forum. You've seen me post in here long enough to not try to call me out as a troll and get all catty over a difference of opinion but it's all good. Yeah, I'm aware, I have been on this site for a long time. I pull white men more than anything but who cares? I have no shame in saying I love seeing colorblind love but I'm not going to 'start a black love' thread just because I feel like stating my preference of black men over white guys. Seems pathetic and super lame given the demographic of this forum.
I wasnt clear ladies. Im sorry. It was my decision not to tell the butcher. Like I said, he needs them. They were already giving him hell about not dating their daughter. And he and I are still in the beginning of our relationship. Im not bothered Im not convinced I want a long term relationship honestly. He may be leaving the area soon too. Not sure yet
He has never hidden me from anyone. He has never been weird about being affectionate in public. He introduces me as his girlfriend. And he would have no issue with me talking to the butcher. I know that for sure. It was my decision not to tell them. I feel bad now lol. Guess I messed up.
I feel like I was a farmer in my past life. Okay, let me stop derailing. Just love farming. LOL!
kupenda said:Lucie I live in maryland in the US. He's in the mountains of virginia. The butcher is in the mountains of maryland. Someone out there has horses but they also have a zebra!
Crackers Phinn thank you. Thats where my head was. Im not gonna run the risk of ruining his entire livelihood over some peoples opinions. He's a good guy. Has his head on straight. Great at networking. Thats how he gets his business. My decision wasnt about our relationship, it was about his job. Im not gonna feel bad about it anymore
Me too! Sometimes I'll drive through farm territory here with the windows down to smell that farm smell, with the flimsy excuse to get cheap farmstand produce Yes, it's manure and animals and stuff smellin' but it's quite soothing . You'd think I was 5 years old when I get into the chicken pens & start chasing them around
OK, enough of the derail...
Don't feel bad. Even if you put the race issue aside, the butcher has been trying to put his daughter on your bf. So he's going to feel some kind of way about your bf rolling up with any woman. In the interest of not affecting my man's cash flow, I would have done the same thing you did and not felt any way about it.
Especially if it is serious. I would not be messing up his source of income. I don't need to go to any Christmas parties with the butcher .
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how is it with Persians? i thought they were strict about who they date as well
i notice the Italians have an affinity for me.maybe because of my Height
I've dated a couple of white men. Actually my first "dating" experience was with this Italian American dude.. I was 19, he was 31..no bueno. I briefly dated this Croatian guy a couple years ago. He was really attractive, respectful, and into me, but my preference for African and West Indian men took over. He was a really nice guy though...
I wasnt clear ladies. Im sorry. It was my decision not to tell the butcher. Like I said, he needs them. They were already giving him hell about not dating their daughter. And he and I are still in the beginning of our relationship. Im not bothered Im not convinced I want a long term relationship honestly. He may be leaving the area soon too. Not sure yet
He has never hidden me from anyone. He has never been weird about being affectionate in public. He introduces me as his girlfriend. And he would have no issue with me talking to the butcher. I know that for sure. It was my decision not to tell them. I feel bad now lol. Guess I messed up.