Thanks for the responses ladies. Some more responses would be nice too.
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I hope I'm not the only one feeling this way.
what are you not doing that they are doing?
it is one thing to be single with a bunch of friends in the same boat but when you are single and all your girlfriends are hitching up, you gotta ask yourself some questions.
better yet, ask their boyfriends to make some introductions to their friends. Umm hmm.
I'm not really "doing" anything different from them! If anything I'm probably getting out and doing more things than they are.
And to be honest, (maybe I should clarify), not ALL of my girlfriends are dating someone. Actually most of my close girlfriends are still single and aren't even dating anybody. But, my sister is already married, and one of my closests girlfriends (the one who sent me the e-mail today) has started dating a guy about a few months ago. We used to be so close and we knew how it felt to be "single". She would encourage me when I was feeling down and I would encourage her when she was down. It's like we could always count on each other to hang out and do things if nobody else was free.
Now days it's like...she doesn't have much time for me anymore.
I know what you mean:-/...
Just start going out more and being more open minded(thats what I plan to do)
Its very important to not get into the "Im so lonely" slump...you'll end up dating a jerk just for companionship...
Yea I agree. You're right.
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I don't want to fall into a slump, but it's hard...especially with the weather looking nice. I just got out of a relationship with a guy that I wasn't that into back in Feb., and even HE's starting to make me second-guess. Like I'm thinking: "hmmm...maybe I should just give him another chance. Maybe he's not that bad!" But I know it's just lonliness talking.
The guy I REALLY wanted is now dating someone too, so that's also been weighing on my mind. *sigh* OH well...
What are you doing to no longer be single?
Are you going out more?
Are you approachable?
And I feel you, because spring time, is a lovely time to have someone and I don't have anyone either.
Yes. Yes. And Yes. I do go out...quite often actually. In fact, friends have nicknamed me the "socialite" and the "party queen". I do tend to meet different people at different parties/gatherings. And I try to go out and do some active things with friends when they invite me, so I'm not sitting at home like a hermit.
I feel that I'm very approachable. But, I don't chase guys. I have learned my lesson.
I am (however) picky when it comes to certain guys. He has to be a good person, and he has to be God-fearing. That hasn't usually been a problem. The MAIN problem that I'm running into is that most of the guys I meet I'm either not attracted to, or they are not into me (at least I don't think).
Lol even though I feel the exact opposite from you RIGHT NOW, I know exactly how you feel because I have felt that way before. What I like about being single is that I have the freedom to date whoever I want at the pace I want, if that's what I want at the time.
However, there have been times when I was single and I had nooo prospects. Not one. It sucked.
Hmm.... so do you have any prospects? How are the Rules going for you? I
NOPE! No prospects! Not anymore. Not a single one.
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I think that's what's getting me so down. I used to have at least a guy that I was "talking to". Sometimes more than one at a time!
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Now days I don't have much of anything.
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The only guys that end up liking me are guy "friends". Ones that I just view as my brother.
I don't know what I'm doing wrong!
BTW...Yeah I'm still doing "the Rules"...and it's getting a lot easier not to pursue. But even the guys I WANT to pursue (and get to know better) I always just assume that they are either taken, or married already. OR...I figure that some other girl has her eye on him already so I don't even bother trying... *sigh*
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