longhairlover
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My husband was laid off last summer from a large insurance company I call them the anti christ, he was the only one laid off and since then his job search along with mine has been a nightmare. However he gets interviews weekly I don't.
He's gotten interviews but no offers, I told him to change up his job search and maybe put less focus on the corporate world since it's a mess and I feel like they are saving the good jobs for their own.
So my hubby's old co-worker has started a green company and my hubby is obsessed with doing sales with this dude, now my husband has told me time and time again that sales jobs are crap and he's not a good salesman, now all of a sudden he wants to do sales for this dude, at first the guy was offering him no sort of stipend nothing just work for free and if you sell i'll give you 2.5% commissions. Hello he's a married f-ing ! man, I have thyroid disease, he has asthma we need benefits!!!!!!! he needs a real paying job!!!!
So this husband of mine was going back and forth with the guy and now the guy is offering a $400 stipend every 2 weeks which he is going to tax!!!! no benefits nothing.
I keep telling my husband don't do it, that he's better off going to home depot or some local place to get f/t work and I think they offer benefits, he's like "that's not gonna happen, i'm gonna do what I want to do!" so i'm ready to go stay with my mother until he comes back to planet earth. (I would go to home depot and try to get work or a local store but I messed my lower back up yrs ago training & pursuing a professional dance career )
It's furiating he is so stuck on this corporate dream of being some CEO or some top mogul when it's hard doing these things and even harder being African American and a darn male,
I tell him it's all good to have dreams but for now we need something with benefits and steady pay not wasting time and having someone use you (his friend).
His other friend was out of work and is newly married and he kept on looking and eventually he found something a real job, he didn't go a make up a job that was practically free work!!!!
i'm so mad right now! i'm applying for work all over and all sorts of positions but still no interviews, my resume is the same format he uses (I created it) but he gets interviews weekly just no offers yet. I feel like this is my bad luck phase in life!
What would you ladies do in this situation? he's not taking my advice, I feel his associate is just using him because my hubby's desperate, after taxes are taken out of a $400 stipend paid bi-weekly he might as well just hand out free newspapers for work.
i'm just so angry because a marriage is supposed to be about talking to each other and making decisions together, but right now he's on some "I do what I want!" ish!
He's gotten interviews but no offers, I told him to change up his job search and maybe put less focus on the corporate world since it's a mess and I feel like they are saving the good jobs for their own.
So my hubby's old co-worker has started a green company and my hubby is obsessed with doing sales with this dude, now my husband has told me time and time again that sales jobs are crap and he's not a good salesman, now all of a sudden he wants to do sales for this dude, at first the guy was offering him no sort of stipend nothing just work for free and if you sell i'll give you 2.5% commissions. Hello he's a married f-ing ! man, I have thyroid disease, he has asthma we need benefits!!!!!!! he needs a real paying job!!!!
So this husband of mine was going back and forth with the guy and now the guy is offering a $400 stipend every 2 weeks which he is going to tax!!!! no benefits nothing.
I keep telling my husband don't do it, that he's better off going to home depot or some local place to get f/t work and I think they offer benefits, he's like "that's not gonna happen, i'm gonna do what I want to do!" so i'm ready to go stay with my mother until he comes back to planet earth. (I would go to home depot and try to get work or a local store but I messed my lower back up yrs ago training & pursuing a professional dance career )
It's furiating he is so stuck on this corporate dream of being some CEO or some top mogul when it's hard doing these things and even harder being African American and a darn male,
I tell him it's all good to have dreams but for now we need something with benefits and steady pay not wasting time and having someone use you (his friend).
His other friend was out of work and is newly married and he kept on looking and eventually he found something a real job, he didn't go a make up a job that was practically free work!!!!
i'm so mad right now! i'm applying for work all over and all sorts of positions but still no interviews, my resume is the same format he uses (I created it) but he gets interviews weekly just no offers yet. I feel like this is my bad luck phase in life!
What would you ladies do in this situation? he's not taking my advice, I feel his associate is just using him because my hubby's desperate, after taxes are taken out of a $400 stipend paid bi-weekly he might as well just hand out free newspapers for work.
i'm just so angry because a marriage is supposed to be about talking to each other and making decisions together, but right now he's on some "I do what I want!" ish!