Frizzyb
Well-Known Member
The last time i posted I was finally moving into my own place. Its been about 2 months now and he has done so many things to make life hell. The one that hurt me to my heart happened last week. Child Proctive Services called me. (both the kids live with him. I had my son but he made him feel so guilty for coming with me he went back of there) He called them about our son not having his meds for his bipolar. Anyway the lady came and I explained everything and she said this looks as though he is trying to make a case against you for custody. She dismissed the case. I then told her my concerns with the kids living with him. 1. our child is depressed and with gun in the house 2. he works at night leaving them alone (he does not want them to come with me. I'm not trying to fight with him putting the kids in the middle. I prefer to do it in a civial manner) 3. The condition of the house (cleaniness). I took pictures and show and she was . I told her that was clean. I'm currently waiting on their findings
Been there, when I left he tried a number of things also. My kids were smaller and I left them with their dad in the home that was bought for them due to the fact I truly didn't have anywhere to go. Not a reliable family member to be found and he had support from his mother who lived there and made it horrible for me as well as his niece.
Now he was unjustly enriched cause I left it all, even clothes. I had bought just about everything in the house but because my children were there and I didn't want him to have the power to play games telling me when and if I could have my things I said forget it it's just stuff.
Saw my kids very frequently but when I got settled in my new apt. and it finally got thru to him that this wasn't a break he tried to keep them from me. Didn't last long cause his backup quickly tired as he's lazy.