^^I was gonna post the same thing. We all 'tolerate' something. Maybe "tolerate" isn't the best word, but it is what it is. You aren't going to loooove every thiiiiing about yo boooooo. Nah son, it don't work like that. If your hair is high up on your list of things that your SO should accept/love, then cool. But's personally I'm more worried that he accepts/loves other things than my hair. But again, dats jus me.
anti-babymama i think the most misleading word in this entire conversation is the word "natural". When we say it, we are picturing textured hairstyles and what comes out of our head with 0 manipulation.
We are all allowed to have preferences (I whole heartedly believe that).....but we should be repectful.
The OP says that she likes men who are more muscular, her boyfriend is not that. Let's examine two senerios.
Senerio 1:
Man: "Baby how do you like my natural chest?"
Woman: "It's alright but you know I liked it better when you had more muscles"
Man: "Really but, but what about my natural chest"
Woman: "Look honey, I love you, I've been with you for 5 years. I'm not going anywhere but I,.....my preference is a more muscular chest. If you want to keep your natural chest I'm fine with it." *smiles*
Senerio 2:
Man: "Baby how do you like my natural chest?"
Woman: "Well, really you need to get in the gym and sculpt that skinny *blank, blank*"
Man: "Really but, but what about my natural chest"
Woman: "Look honey, I love you, I've been with you for 5 years. I'm not going anywhere but this is what I like"*quickly looks up pics as a example, comes back smiling and showing what she found*
ics:
Does scenerio 2, sound good when presented to strangers who are trying to embrace their natural chest? One has to know that all they are going to get is a bunch of
OP, I respect your man's preferences. I guess for me the comment I mentioned in my previous post was the thing that was offensive. Tis' all.
Totally off topic but that's so funny because back home nobody is circumcised, DH is not, and in fact I've never seen a circumcised one. So to me,it's the other way around. And I live in Canada now and I won't be doing that to my boy.(oh and Dh's you-know-what is very clean lol).
) I think they look bald and funny looking 
i expected as much
Although that line of thinking does crack me up everytime
don't agree with a word he said, but he is a fantastic writer (style)!OMG! I can't wait to hear his response!!!
ETA: Ohhh it's a bloggy thingy. Okay...off to read then.
ETA2: Okay, I read it. Tell him thank you for taking the time out to write such a well-written response (I thought it was well written)! It was a very nice read. And while I disagree with him on most of the points he made, I can still appreciate good writing style.
I do, however, have some questions
I really want to get the joke
Someone said this? I must have missed that...
*tick* *tick* Uh! *tick* I like a long-haired, thick redbone. Open up her legs and filet mignon that p****
Ok yall, maybe we should stop raggin on him. We don't want him to be one of those "I don't date BW because they was mean to me when I was broke" type negros if he ever gets famous one day
he should definitely do something with that! I enjoyed it. That's definitely a talent he has there
When I look at his picture (observe his features and hair type), his response is even more funny (in a sad type of way). A dark skinned black man with 4b type hair who prefers lightskin women with Asian hair
I hate it when people confuse hair type with hairstyle. The way your hair grows out of your head is not a style
