I think some types of natural hair attract more attention than others. If it's big and curly I think a lot of people are fascinated. If it doesn't have natural curl definition but you have a funky braid out pinned up on the sides or something like that - then some people like to see that. If you have regular 4b-z hair that you haven't gone out of your way to texture, and people are asking to touch it then please chime in. Truthfully I only see this kind of hair big and out on guys in between cornrow jobs and I'm always impressed but I never see it on women. However a woman with 4b-z hair can attract quite a few compliments if it's a twa or short fro. These are my personal observations.
Then there are some people who only like straight hair and call the slightest wave "nappy" so response varies.
Then there are some people who only like straight hair and call the slightest wave "nappy" so response varies.