How do you feel about your relationship today?

I really appreciate the happy comments. I'm a single girl, so this gives me hope.

One thing I can say is that last yr this time I was in a relationship and I was miserable, he never lived up to my expectations, leaving me feeling so unfulfilled and worthless. And today, I feel blessed and satiated with joy and love. I guess if I dont have a man, I still have myself and my king smiling down on me.
 
itismehmmkay said:
I'm sorry sweetie.
I think you should plan something different for your birthday; maybe a happy hour/dinner party where you can invite other people and won't feel as affected by a possible stand-up. And if he does stand you up, that'll just be a different issue to talk about.

And in general, maybe try pulling back a bit and becoming a bit self-centered. I find that makes you worry less about him and him worry more about you. :look:
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:yep::yep: SO TRUE!!! I used to ask my bfriend why I was always the one making the phone calls and sending the txt msgs and I told him that eventually I would grow tired of it and miss him less, yadi yada... He thought I was "threatening" him :rolleyes: so he kept at it for a few months and as time went by I called him less and less... Now HE is the one calling me more often. Sometimes he calls me before I call him.

To answer the original OP, I really miss him a lot lately. We've been in a lg-distance relationship for 3 and 1/2 years now and I'm getting tired of doing the 4hr30 from NY to Boston all the time! WE spent our first vacation together last month in NH and it felt like playing house. He was cooking more than me and I loved to watch him do his magic in the kitchen. We've been talking about getting engaged this year, but I'll believe it when I see that rock on my finger! :look:
He's at a communion right now w/ his mom so we can't really talk...I wanna hear his voice so badly now...let me call him. :look:...and he's watching the Celtics vs. Chicago Bulls game...:wallbash: He's been so preoccupied w/ this season, ugh!
 
<strike>completely unwanted. Like he like the idea of being with me more than me.</strike>

Feeling much better now that my body has adjusted to the hormones. Stupid birth control. Now I wish we could spend a bit more time together, but know that we'll get the chance to during the summer so its all good.
 
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I can't really describe how I'm feeling about him today...I still love him but he is stressing me out to high heavens. He thinks there are too many men chasing after me and I believe it's making him a little insecure but he doesn't want to say so.

Last night I was almost at the point where I was ready to call it quits because I don't know how much more I can take. I told him I need some time to myself to pray and reflect on some stuff and I would be ready to give him a call in about 3 or 4 days or so. So we'll see how it goes.
 
ThickHair said:
I am working to get my ex back. YUP, I put it all on the table for him. So I feel pretty good, he is receptive.
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That is interesting you say that, cause whenever I read your posts about you and your ex, I can tell that you still love him. :yep:

As for my relationship, I am just wondering what was I thinking. :ohwell:
 
My Long Distance Boo and I are going EXTREMELY well and we are communicating so much better then before. I am fyling out to see him May 12 and I am sooo excited!!!
 
i love mine so much today! he is sleeping beside me on the couch and i can't help but stare at him....he's gonna be so surprised when he wakes up to his dinner (i'm working on this cooking thing)!

p.s. yeah, dinner is a little late today....shhhhh...i'll work on timing after i master the cooking part!
 
Feeling good. I've been studying a lot lately so naturally the place has been a mess. SO came home yesterday after a 12 hour work day and cleaned the kitchen and did the laundry. He also had time to balance my chakras before a great session of tantric coloring. Needless to say, I'm a happy camper.
 
He is still stressing me out. He ignored the fact that I need some alone time and is still calling me to "talk" or should I say more like "stress me out". I am tired.
 
Helpmeblongagain said:
I really appreciate the happy comments. I'm a single girl, so this gives me hope.

One thing I can say is that last yr this time I was in a relationship and I was miserable, he never lived up to my expectations, leaving me feeling so unfulfilled and worthless. And today, I feel blessed and satiated with joy and love. I guess if I dont have a man, I still have myself and my king smiling down on me.
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I am happy for you girl!:yep: I'm going to use this as inspiration since I am newly single and it hurts BAD!!!
 
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