How do you feel about your relationship today?

Today, great :yep:
Last night when knucklehead came to bed and woke me up opening windows and talking about it's too hot in the room...not so great!
We are doing very good these days though :)
 
He's been crabby all daggone month. I'm an extremely patient person so I deal with his moods pretty well, but last week was rough. I made him sit down and open up (which is hard cus he is extremely guarded), it was a good convo, but he's still Hulkish... I miss Bruce Banner, lol.
 
Like a motherless child. His job has him busy and we never see each other. He want to hook up for my birthday but I think he's going to stand me up because of his job.:nono:
 
So I feel a bit better and figure we'll be back to normal tonight.
This weekend was just not planned as well and things just kinda went all over the place. We spent each part of the weekend together, but it could've been more special. And I may or may not have picked a fight w/ him due to the frustration. *sigh* We'll just do better next time.
 
nikki1971 said:
I feel the same way. Just blah. No specific problems... Long distance relationships are hard. I miss him :(
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I definitely agree. It's been great so far, but I can tell that the long distance is stressing him a little. I think we need to see each other more often, but overall, I'm very happy. On cloud nine actually.
 
MACgirl2k2 said:
Like a motherless child. His job has him busy and we never see each other. He want to hook up for my birthday but I think he's going to stand me up because of his job.:nono:
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I'm sorry sweetie.
I think you should plan something different for your birthday; maybe a happy hour/dinner party where you can invite other people and won't feel as affected by a possible stand-up. And if he does stand you up, that'll just be a different issue to talk about.

And in general, maybe try pulling back a bit and becoming a bit self-centered. I find that makes you worry less about him and him worry more about you. :look:
 
how one feels when the person you've been dating tells you: "i'm open to it, but i'm not gung-ho about it" regarding meeting your parents :ohwell:
:( :(
 
Not good; this past week has been very stressful. I felt 4 years were about to be down the drain. But this week we are taking a break from each other. So we've only been texting and talking on yahoo messenger.
 
redbone_412 said:
I feel great and VERY much in love....my birthday was yesterday so we spent the weekend taking it easy and just being together. I told him I didn't want to do anything big so we did some shopping, eating, "coloring" and watching my girly movies LOL

He sent me a text this morning saying "there's nothing better than having you all to myself. As always, I love you beyond measure".....he made my day b/c I do NOT want to be here working right now :(((((((
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:cry: Reading things like this sooooo makes me stand firm on my standards of intimacy and emotions. I love it.
 
I feel really good about it. Last night was so comforting.....I cuddled under him on the couch while he uploaded songs on my Ipod. He brought me a throw blanket because I was chilly and before he finished I fell asleep on his shoulder. I woke up with a warm loved feeling then as I was getting ready for work he brought me a cup of coffee ahhhhhhh he is really something special. :yep:
 
Feeling good...but I really miss him...
The distance makes things very hard sometimes...but I have to say I'm very happy with how things are going after all these years...we've made it through the tough times and I'm looking forward to the future...
 
Friday I realized I do care about him somewhat, we are still new only 7 weeks. He got really ill at church. I was sitting across from his parents and he didn't want his Dad to take him home and his Dad looked at me and ask me could I make sure he got home safely. I was like "Huh", 'What" and he told his dad I would. Now I am not the nurturing type at all and I told him that from the beginning. I made sure he got home and we sat down on the couch and he just layed his head on my lap and he hurled chunks on my nice church dress. I jumped up and without regards for myself, I was making sure he was ok, then I took care of me. When I read the title of this thread, I was like yeah, I am feeling great. Any other dude, I would have been like, you should let you Dad take you home since you are not feeling well.

When I spoke to him Saturday, he kept thanking me and apologizing for throwing up on me. 2 weeks before then, I had received some bad medical news about a family member and he was very comforting.
 
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I'm sorry sweetie.
I think you should plan something different for your birthday; maybe a happy hour/dinner party where you can invite other people and won't feel as affected by a possible stand-up. And if he does stand you up, that'll just be a different issue to talk about.

And in general, maybe try pulling back a bit and becoming a bit self-centered. I find that makes you worry less about him and him worry more about you.
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You are absolutely right. Thanks for that. He keeps calling and he said that he has the weekend off. I'm confused. Maybe my family was right about him. It might be time to breakup for good.:ohwell:
 
an update from the other day --- things are better now , we are cool again ... but lawd MANstruation is a **** sometimes. I think they need to learn how to better express themselves sometimes.... especially the passive aggressive ones like mine who bottle it all up.
 
For the first time in a long time am in a relationship that makes me feel great with someone that thinks am wondeful - its all going so well am actually just scared it may go wrong but its still early days i guess ....
 
really good. the power went out last night & he called to make sure i was ok (um, i was sleeping so i had no idea). when it came back on, i went over & idk if this boy talks in his sleep or what but i kept hearing him randomly say how beautiful i am. (and he's done this before) :infatuated:
 
Feeling overall great and happy but pissed that I am still waiting for him to go to pathmark! Why does he think its ok to get to pathmark at 11:30pm cause they close at midnight?
 
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