*~*Afrolicious*~*
Well-Known Member
He just not that into you.
You meet a guy at a lounge.
He introduces himself as Brian.
It's loud so you ask him to repeat himself and he says "Brian. That's..my middle name".
You give him your number and he calls a couple days later.
You begin a pretty good conversation on the phone.
You ask for his "real" or first name.
He says Patrick. Then he goes on to tell you that Brian is not even his middle name. It's just a name that he gives to people when he first meets them because he doesn't know what they are about and doesn't know if they need to know his name like that.
What do you do? Do you continue talking to him or consider it a red flag and keep it moving?
DEFINATE RED-FLAG!! I knew someone who lied about his name too, approached ME and lied about his name, but not his first name just his middle and last name. He was a fugitive.
If he lies to you from jump street, there will be a whole lot more lies and stories to come. Who knows what he's up to lying to people about his name. RUN!
Exactly!! Women give fake names, fake numbers, and even wear fake engagement/wedding rings. Watching your back doesn't look quite the same when it's coming from the other side.Are you serious?
Well, women do the same thing...their name is "Kim" if they aint feeling the guy but for HIM to approach YOU and then lie is weird.
If he was feeling you then why lie?
Not too surprised, i've had guys say they dont have kids then after we talk more, it comes out that they do.
I've given a fake name to get a bug-a-boo out of my face, but never to someone I thought I could be interested in. My fake name is Ginger.
I remember a guy giving me a fake name once. Turns out that his real name was Francis and he just hated his name.
I do the same thing. I hate when guys try to introduce themselves with a nickname...I ask them for the name their mama put on the birth certificate.
OP, a guy approaching you with a fake name is a big red-flag to me. Gives off the impression that he's hiding something.
LOL! My fake name is Monet`. Ladies...what are your club names?
LOL! My fake name is Monet`. Ladies...what are your club names?