So, I met this man online and have been on 5 dates with him so far. I was scared of the online dating but my friend talked me into it. I was a member online for about a week when I deactivated my account. Before I closed it out I sent him my # in case he wanted to keep in touch. We talked on and off and then we just stopped texting and I pretty much forgot about him.
About a month later he texts me and we started talking more and more each day. Shortly after we met. It was fun and we both expressed how much of a good time we had. After the first date we started talking and texing every other day and we started going out every weekend. After each date he would tell me how much he had a great time and complimented me heavily.
The last time we really spoke he told me how he wants to keep me around and see where things go. He told me how he appreciates me for me and wants to stick around. Well , that was last week (wednesday). He went away with his boys for a few days and during that time we've texted but nothing special. He came back saturday night and had to work sunday so I understand he may have been tired or busy so when I didnt hear from him it wasn't a big deal. Well today..is Thursday and I haven't heard from him since Saturday....
I said I wasn't going to call him but ended up doing so this morning. He told me he was so busy at work and his work load doubled since being away and has just been so tired. He said they were partying over the weekend and he didnt get much rest. He's an attorney and had several meetings with clients and had to go to court, but I still felt he could have at least texted or call.
is it too soon for me to just say forget it and move on or do you think his reasoning is legitmate?
I guess I will wait and see if he ever contacts me again or schedules another date.
This dating thing is so hard. I haven't really dated for a long time and I'm starting to think its not for me. smh. I'm almost 30( I know thats still young) but I want a family and more kids well before 40 lol and I dont see that happening.
About a month later he texts me and we started talking more and more each day. Shortly after we met. It was fun and we both expressed how much of a good time we had. After the first date we started talking and texing every other day and we started going out every weekend. After each date he would tell me how much he had a great time and complimented me heavily.
The last time we really spoke he told me how he wants to keep me around and see where things go. He told me how he appreciates me for me and wants to stick around. Well , that was last week (wednesday). He went away with his boys for a few days and during that time we've texted but nothing special. He came back saturday night and had to work sunday so I understand he may have been tired or busy so when I didnt hear from him it wasn't a big deal. Well today..is Thursday and I haven't heard from him since Saturday....
I said I wasn't going to call him but ended up doing so this morning. He told me he was so busy at work and his work load doubled since being away and has just been so tired. He said they were partying over the weekend and he didnt get much rest. He's an attorney and had several meetings with clients and had to go to court, but I still felt he could have at least texted or call.
is it too soon for me to just say forget it and move on or do you think his reasoning is legitmate?
I guess I will wait and see if he ever contacts me again or schedules another date.
This dating thing is so hard. I haven't really dated for a long time and I'm starting to think its not for me. smh. I'm almost 30( I know thats still young) but I want a family and more kids well before 40 lol and I dont see that happening.