Help,
Background history: Two yrs ago my son and my bf was playing and my bf starched my son face so when he went to his dads, he notice the mark and asked what happen and my son did tell his dad that they were playing and it was an accident. My ex didn't believe the story. So it was about 3 mos later and he seen my bf and confronts him, my bf was in this same situation 20 years ago that ended up with him having to go to boot camp and 5 years probation for using his hands as a weapon causing bodily harm. So after this he was angry at me bc I didn't stand up for him but i wanted too see if he could hold his own and my ex is a violent man and I knew if i would've said something it would've made the situation worst.
So yesterday me and my boyfriends was at the mall to get my 2nd engagement ring so my ex husband was there with our son and his daugther so I went up to the kids give them hugs and we walk alway.
Me and my bf stopped into a clothing store that was b4 the jewelry store and my ex comes in the store yelling my son said you be nice to him but don't put your ...... hands on my son if you ever have a problem with him just call me because if you put your hand on him I will kill both of you bc I just got out of jail and I'm not a fear to go back so by this time I was so embrassed I just wanted to cry.
I haven't been with my ex husband in 9 years and we don't even talk on the phone bc if i called him today to get back together he would.So we immediately leave the mall no ring in hand.
We get into the car and my bf tells me it was all on my fault that this happen. He said that when I seen the kids I should've acted like I didn't even see them. He states I have to much baggage to deal with and he don't feel like it's worth getting married. I cried all the way home bc I have never met a man like my boyfriend, I felt that he was my soul mate.
So I thought well I'm going to let everyone cool off and then I will call and try to get the bottom of things. My-ex text and I told him that what he did wasn't necessary and he act like the accident happen yesterday and he ruin a wonderful relationship.My bf is 10 years older then the both of us by the way. Next I called my bf and told him that about the texts and it was upset and told me that I should never talk to him at all even if is just texting that I should cut all ties but what about my son. I told him that what he was asking was unrealistic and he told me he wanted me out his life bc of the drama and I said my ex has won again.
What do I do now?
Sincerly,
Heartbroken
Background history: Two yrs ago my son and my bf was playing and my bf starched my son face so when he went to his dads, he notice the mark and asked what happen and my son did tell his dad that they were playing and it was an accident. My ex didn't believe the story. So it was about 3 mos later and he seen my bf and confronts him, my bf was in this same situation 20 years ago that ended up with him having to go to boot camp and 5 years probation for using his hands as a weapon causing bodily harm. So after this he was angry at me bc I didn't stand up for him but i wanted too see if he could hold his own and my ex is a violent man and I knew if i would've said something it would've made the situation worst.
So yesterday me and my boyfriends was at the mall to get my 2nd engagement ring so my ex husband was there with our son and his daugther so I went up to the kids give them hugs and we walk alway.
Me and my bf stopped into a clothing store that was b4 the jewelry store and my ex comes in the store yelling my son said you be nice to him but don't put your ...... hands on my son if you ever have a problem with him just call me because if you put your hand on him I will kill both of you bc I just got out of jail and I'm not a fear to go back so by this time I was so embrassed I just wanted to cry.
I haven't been with my ex husband in 9 years and we don't even talk on the phone bc if i called him today to get back together he would.So we immediately leave the mall no ring in hand.
We get into the car and my bf tells me it was all on my fault that this happen. He said that when I seen the kids I should've acted like I didn't even see them. He states I have to much baggage to deal with and he don't feel like it's worth getting married. I cried all the way home bc I have never met a man like my boyfriend, I felt that he was my soul mate.
So I thought well I'm going to let everyone cool off and then I will call and try to get the bottom of things. My-ex text and I told him that what he did wasn't necessary and he act like the accident happen yesterday and he ruin a wonderful relationship.My bf is 10 years older then the both of us by the way. Next I called my bf and told him that about the texts and it was upset and told me that I should never talk to him at all even if is just texting that I should cut all ties but what about my son. I told him that what he was asking was unrealistic and he told me he wanted me out his life bc of the drama and I said my ex has won again.
What do I do now?
Sincerly,
Heartbroken