fiyahwerks
Well-Known Member
I don't know if this is the right forum for this question, but currently divorced from a unhealthy marriage of 2 years. I've was with my ex-husband for 6 years prior, and finally got married because the pastor told us "If you going to act as married, do it right under God". His mother hopped right on it (God Bless her) and made the wedding happen.
Two of the hardest years together finally ends thanks to adultery, new children from different females, lying, money, the usual. Did marriage counseling with his pastor's church, and that worked for 2 months. I prayed for help. I did everything I thought a woman losing her best friend should do. One day I ended up hospital with super high blood pressure and on the verge of a stroke, I was 26. I had my WTF moment: Why am I chasing and staying around with a man who makes me end up like this? Thank you God for the clarity (and/or drugs...lol)
Now I have a man that treats me like a queen. He has his faults, but I can say I'm ready to hop the broom again. I've known him since high school, but we took different life rivers. He's ready, but I'm afraid of remarrying because of the embarrassment I will feel in front of my family.
Anyone have any advice on how I can overcome this feeling?
I know the easy answer is I'm not suppose to care, but I do care about how my family views me.
Thanks for advance.
Two of the hardest years together finally ends thanks to adultery, new children from different females, lying, money, the usual. Did marriage counseling with his pastor's church, and that worked for 2 months. I prayed for help. I did everything I thought a woman losing her best friend should do. One day I ended up hospital with super high blood pressure and on the verge of a stroke, I was 26. I had my WTF moment: Why am I chasing and staying around with a man who makes me end up like this? Thank you God for the clarity (and/or drugs...lol)
Now I have a man that treats me like a queen. He has his faults, but I can say I'm ready to hop the broom again. I've known him since high school, but we took different life rivers. He's ready, but I'm afraid of remarrying because of the embarrassment I will feel in front of my family.
Anyone have any advice on how I can overcome this feeling?
I know the easy answer is I'm not suppose to care, but I do care about how my family views me.
Thanks for advance.