yokoyokogirl
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The BF gave me a housekey and the password.
Then I said I hate taking the train to his house (it's a 25 min ride, but I
hate crowded trains) so I always drive.
Parking costs a grip. So today he emailed and said he will purchase a parking space for my car at his apt. (It cost $270 a month...usual price for the city) I said "Oh that's expensive", He said "Why don't you just move in?" (Hence save money paying double rent and not have to drive to visit him..)
Right now, I'm against this only because my parents--even though they live a whole International Date line away--would fly over here and kill me, if they knew I was living with a guy.
My first marriage was a disaster, and I think maybe living together would have shown me the "true" side of my ex...then again, he was a jerk regardless.
I explained this to my BF and he said "We will get married in a couple years anyways." (Like this was already established--without my knowledge, simply decided by him!!!)
Just thinking on all this and wondering...
Does cohabitation ever lead to marriage? Is it a good thing or does it just screw things up?erplexed
Then I said I hate taking the train to his house (it's a 25 min ride, but I
hate crowded trains) so I always drive.
Parking costs a grip. So today he emailed and said he will purchase a parking space for my car at his apt. (It cost $270 a month...usual price for the city) I said "Oh that's expensive", He said "Why don't you just move in?" (Hence save money paying double rent and not have to drive to visit him..)
Right now, I'm against this only because my parents--even though they live a whole International Date line away--would fly over here and kill me, if they knew I was living with a guy.
My first marriage was a disaster, and I think maybe living together would have shown me the "true" side of my ex...then again, he was a jerk regardless.
I explained this to my BF and he said "We will get married in a couple years anyways." (Like this was already established--without my knowledge, simply decided by him!!!)
Just thinking on all this and wondering...
Does cohabitation ever lead to marriage? Is it a good thing or does it just screw things up?erplexed