CherryCherryBoomBoom
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I know this may be a sensitive subject, but it's been playing on my mind lately and I'm really curious for some different views of you wise women.
OK, there's this other forum I frequently go on, it's www.thestudentroom.co.uk. It's a UK based student forum, with topics such as education and also life being discussed. It's a fairly decent place for the most part, but every once in a while there have been discussions about racial preferences in relationships, and I have discovered that Black Women seem to come bottom of many people's romantic preferences, amongst the different races, which I was quite shocked about, and also disappointed, obviously . Reasons I've read for this (sorry if this causes offence, but this is true stuff that people have said on the forum, that I'm just adding to illustrate, so brace yourself): Black Women are the least attractive, look more manly than women in other races, have bad hair, not nice faces, have too big butts, are mainly overweight, are too loud and facety, etc etc . Obviously, this sounds like total bullcrap to me, since I've seen plenty of beautiful Black woman, and I myself am not a loud and rude girl
And even still, Black Men seem to get more good rep on that site than Black Women . When I also compare to my own life, I'm 18, and have only had one boyfriend so far, and I really don't get that much attention from men to be honest. Then I see a lot of my peers that seem to get guys really easily, and surprise surprise, they're all white girls. So I am seeing a bit of a pattern here. I do live in a mostly white area, so that could be partly it, I dunno. And to add, I think I probably have seen more BMWW couples than BWWM couples.
Basically, I just want to know what you all think. Since we're all Black women, I thought this would be the perfect place to ask. So, has anyone ever really experienced this whole "Black women are less attractive" thing? Or fortunately not? I know I'm just a young Brit talking here, but I want to know opinions from women in the USA and other places as well. Fire away.
OK, there's this other forum I frequently go on, it's www.thestudentroom.co.uk. It's a UK based student forum, with topics such as education and also life being discussed. It's a fairly decent place for the most part, but every once in a while there have been discussions about racial preferences in relationships, and I have discovered that Black Women seem to come bottom of many people's romantic preferences, amongst the different races, which I was quite shocked about, and also disappointed, obviously . Reasons I've read for this (sorry if this causes offence, but this is true stuff that people have said on the forum, that I'm just adding to illustrate, so brace yourself): Black Women are the least attractive, look more manly than women in other races, have bad hair, not nice faces, have too big butts, are mainly overweight, are too loud and facety, etc etc . Obviously, this sounds like total bullcrap to me, since I've seen plenty of beautiful Black woman, and I myself am not a loud and rude girl
And even still, Black Men seem to get more good rep on that site than Black Women . When I also compare to my own life, I'm 18, and have only had one boyfriend so far, and I really don't get that much attention from men to be honest. Then I see a lot of my peers that seem to get guys really easily, and surprise surprise, they're all white girls. So I am seeing a bit of a pattern here. I do live in a mostly white area, so that could be partly it, I dunno. And to add, I think I probably have seen more BMWW couples than BWWM couples.
Basically, I just want to know what you all think. Since we're all Black women, I thought this would be the perfect place to ask. So, has anyone ever really experienced this whole "Black women are less attractive" thing? Or fortunately not? I know I'm just a young Brit talking here, but I want to know opinions from women in the USA and other places as well. Fire away.