FemmeFatale
Well-Known Member
Why or why not?
So my godsister who is 22 and on her way to nursing school has found out that she is pregnant (unfortunately I saw this coming, her friends were having babies one after the other). She and her boyfriend (who is 25 and more established than she is) are getting married next month and I have heard a few of her peers mumbling "oh I hope she's not getting married just because she's having a baby" Even my 19 yr old cousin said that (I checked her a**).
It got me to thinking, what is so wrong with that? If the man and woman decide to step up to the plate and get married..they have already been together for 3 years, they love each other and now they have a baby on the way..WHAT IS THE PROBLEM? I can see if she were a teen but she's an adult who has a vision.. The phrase "Just because she's having a baby" irks me to no end, as if attempting to provide a stable loving unit for your family is a crime.
So my godsister who is 22 and on her way to nursing school has found out that she is pregnant (unfortunately I saw this coming, her friends were having babies one after the other). She and her boyfriend (who is 25 and more established than she is) are getting married next month and I have heard a few of her peers mumbling "oh I hope she's not getting married just because she's having a baby" Even my 19 yr old cousin said that (I checked her a**).
It got me to thinking, what is so wrong with that? If the man and woman decide to step up to the plate and get married..they have already been together for 3 years, they love each other and now they have a baby on the way..WHAT IS THE PROBLEM? I can see if she were a teen but she's an adult who has a vision.. The phrase "Just because she's having a baby" irks me to no end, as if attempting to provide a stable loving unit for your family is a crime.