Men and Their Silly Categories! Which Category are you in?
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Do_Si_Dos
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She had lists up but she took the them down. Basically you are someone he wants to wife or a stand in until wife shows up.
Keen
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I can't see them either.
BeautifulFlower
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Yup I have categories.
"Marriage-Material"
"Friend that will pay for dinners"
"Yummy to look at but too dumb to hubby"
"Would love to....but I love Jesus"
Do_Si_Dos
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Mr. Right, Mr. Right Now, and Mr.You are a kang and I can't!!!
Yup I have categories.
"Marriage-Material"
"Friend that will pay for dinners"
"Yummy to look at but too dumb to hubby"
"Would love to....but I love Jesus"
^^^^ too funny
FlyyBohemian
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Yup I have categories.
"Marriage-Material"
"Friend that will pay for dinners"
"Yummy to look at but too dumb to hubby"
"Would love to....but I love Jesus"
I love it!!!l Lol!!!
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We do it all the time, so you know they do. Have you checked the you tube videos, lately?
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I've heard this so many times.
Do_Si_Dos
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Crystalicequeen123
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If it's anything like "The Ladder Theory" then it's definitely an EYE-opener!
But it definitely makes sense.
LOL!
I LOVE it! My only question is: How does a woman ensure that she is treated as a "Category 1" woman and not a "Category 2, 3, or 4"??
Does it really matter what the woman does or how she treats the man? Or, do some men just put ALL women into "Category 2" at first? I'm trying to figure out how much is due to the WOMAN and how she views herself or allows herself to be treated by the man, and how much is really due to the MAN himself (ie. not really ready for a committment at the time, just not as attracted to her as he is to a future woman coming into his life, etc). Just curious....
I know one thing, if I EVER get the impression that a guy is trying to put me in "Category 2", I will swiftly kick his butt to the curb! I don't have time for that mess.
^^^I used to think there were like certain guidelines and only certain types of women that fall in category one. And that I just wasn't it and either needed to change who I am or throw in the towel. But there is somebody for everybody. I really am just a chill, easy going person. But just bc one guy automatically thinks that puts me in a certain category doesn't mean thats going to be the case for everyone. I just keep being the best me possible, don't try to change for anyone and whoever doesn't like it can kick rocks. Bc eventually someone will. I just maintain my standards and don't put up with BS and when I see someone trying to place me in a category I'm not trying to be in, I KIM and on the next one.
I just maintain my standards and don't put up with BS and when I see someone trying to place me in a category I'm not trying to be in, I KIM and on the next one.
kibbles318
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I voted category 1 and I have the pros with ALL of the cons.... Not cute at all lol....
Crystalicequeen123
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^^^I used to think there were like certain guidelines and only certain types of women that fall in category one. And that I just wasn't it and either needed to change who I am or throw in the towel. But there is somebody for everybody. I really am just a chill, easy going person. But just bc one guy automatically thinks that puts me in a certain category doesn't mean thats going to be the case for everyone. I just keep being the best me possible, don't try to change for anyone and whoever doesn't like it can kick rocks. Bc eventually someone will.
That's a good moto to live by. I don't like changing myself TOO much in order to "catch" a man either .
I know there's SOME man out there who will like me just the way I am.
kibbles318
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I don't like changing myself TOO much in order to "catch" a man either .
Who said anything about anyone changing? I Didn't read anything about changing to catch a man in the OP.....lol... Are y'all in the wrong thread?
Crystalicequeen123
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[mention=14364575] kibbles318[/mention]....Lol...no, what Imani was just saying in HER post was that before, she felt like she was either just NOT one of those women who were put into "Category 1", OR she felt like she had to change something about HERSELF in order for men to put her in the "Category 1" (or the "Marry Me" category) box, but now...she sees that some men will like her just the way that she is. She doesn't have to change herself in order to be in that Category in other words. Some men will either like her, or they just won't! Period.
Her response was to me asking the question: "What can women DO in order to ensure that they are seen as 'Category 1' women?" When in reality....(aside from the obvious things of course) you don't have to change anything really. As long as you're not selling yourself short, you should be fine.
Some men will always put you in "Category 2" no matter how "great" you are. That's just them. So all I was saying was that I was agreeing with her and stating that I didn't feel the need to try to bend over backwards and change myself either in order to fit a certain man's "category".
I hope that makes sense? lol
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kibbles318
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[mention=14364575] kibbles318[/mention]....Lol...no, what Imani was just saying in HER post was that before, she felt like she was either just NOT one of those women who were put into "Category 1", OR she felt like she had to change something about HERSELF in order for men to put her in the "Category 1" (or the "Marry Me" category) box, but now...she sees that some men will like her just the way that she is. She doesn't have to change herself in order to be in that Category in other words. Some men will either like her, or they just won't! Period.
Her response was to me asking the question: "What can women DO in order to ensure that they are seen as 'Category 1' women?" When in reality....(aside from the obvious things of course) you don't have to change anything really. As long as you're not selling yourself short, you should be fine.
So all I was saying was that I was agreeing with her and stating that I didn't feel the need to try to bend over backwards and change myself either in order to fit a certain man's "category".
I hope that makes sense? lol
Lol girl I had BEEN figured that out like right after I posted. Lol. That was my bad, I posted/replied without reading... My bad lol
ETA: guess I should have recanted a month ago when this was posted, lol... but I figured no one was coming back in this post
Crystalicequeen123
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LOL!
That's okay! I hadn't been in here in a while too, and I JUST saw your last post today! lol 
Guitarhero
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Cuz women are the conquest in nature's biology, as in stringing us along. And if they were more honest about these categories, we'd know immediately and squash their game in the nutsack.
My SO has been honest with women if they asked, or something becomes apparent. Has got him dumped a few times because of it.
I do know a fair amount of men who are honest to a fault and if actually asked they will answer very clearly how they feel. If a woman says do you love me they will say "no" or "not yet but I'll tell you when I do" for example.
One of the things I've noticed about some of my BFFs is they are so scared to broach any subjects, say what they are looking for, or ask whats popping. Like they just want to start sleeping with a man and hope it will end in relationship.
See how it goes lol.
I ask EVERYTHING. Even if I did stumble upon a liar I'd know. Women aren't that stupid, we know when guys lie. Sometimes we want to pretend we don't though.
I've had some experience with this too as I've met guys who have vocalized they are fine with "see how it goes", just get to know each other. Then it later became obvious they wanted me to be a potential long term girl friend.
I do know a fair amount of men who are honest to a fault and if actually asked they will answer very clearly how they feel. If a woman says do you love me they will say "no"
or "not yet but I'll tell you when I do" for example. One of the things I've noticed about some of my BFFs is they are so scared to broach any subjects, say what they are looking for, or ask whats popping. Like they just want to start sleeping with a man and hope it will end in relationship.
See how it goes lol.I ask EVERYTHING. Even if I did stumble upon a liar I'd know. Women aren't that stupid, we know when guys lie. Sometimes we want to pretend we don't though.
I've had some experience with this too as I've met guys who have vocalized they are fine with "see how it goes", just get to know each other. Then it later became obvious they wanted me to be a potential long term girl friend.
ThirdEyeBeauty
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Cuz women are the conquest in nature's biology, as in stringing us along. And if they were more honest about these categories, we'd know immediately and squash their game in the nutsack.
I know this thread is old but has anyone read the book "The List: 7 Ways to Tell..."?
It is scary how accurate it is to figure out a man who is marriage-minded for you. The book sounds old in traditions but I was surprise when it actually happened just as the book describes. It is not for all relationships but it is a good book if you want no stringing along.
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