Our wedding was about 5K, It was at a really nice venue too (about 100 guests)
I saved money by not having any bridesmaids, not having a bar, not having flower arrangements, getting my bouquet from a grocery store
, getting a family member to perform the ceremony, and buying a white evening gown to wear as my wedding dress (Less than $200
).
Example: These dresses are only $99.00!!! you can pay about 100 bucks more to have them altered to look more "wedding-like"
I only had a maid of honor and I let her pick out her own dress in the color of our wedding, something that she would wear again after my wedding because I hate spending money on bridesmaids gowns that only get worn once. I am kinda anti-bridesmaids because I feel like sometimes they add more chaos and drama than necessary
I negotiated with the DJ, photographer, venue, and the designer of my cake. This saved me about 2K. We served a hot lunch at the wedding that was prepared by the venue. I can't even remember what was served but it was tasty and it was one of the cheapest meals available
This was about three years ago in a small to medium sized city.
We also got married in the afternoon and did everything at the venue. I stuck with the cream colored standard (Free) decorations and candles provided by the venue.
Everyone enjoyed themselves and a couple of people told us it was the best wedding they had ever attended
I never day dreamed about getting married as a kid, but we ended up pulling it off very well!